Thursday, February 23, 2006

Stolen from voyeurprincess

I've bolded the parts I agreed with.
the Questioner
Test finished!
you chose CY - your Enneagram type is SIX.

"I am affectionate and skeptical"

Questioners are responsible, trustworthy, and value loyalty to family, friends, groups, and causes. Their personalities range broadly from reserved and timid to outspoken and confrontative.

How to Get Along with Me

  • Be direct and clear.
  • Listen to me carefully.
  • Don't judge me for my anxiety.
  • Work things through with me.
  • Reassure me that everything is OK between us.
  • Laugh and make jokes with me.
  • Gently push me toward new experiences.
  • Try not to overreact to my overreacting.

What I Like About Being a Six

  • being committed and faithful to family and friends
  • being responsible and hardworking
  • being compassionate toward others
  • having intellect and wit
  • being a nonconformist
  • confronting danger bravely
  • being direct and assertive

What's Hard About Being a Six

  • the constant push and pull involved in trying to make up my mind
  • procrastinating because of fear of failure; having little confidence in myself
  • fearing being abandoned or taken advantage of
  • exhausting myself by worrying and scanning for danger
  • wishing I had a rule book at work so I could do everything right
  • being too critical of myself when I haven't lived up to my expectations

Sixes as Children Often

  • are friendly, likable, and dependable, and/or sarcastic, bossy, and stubborn
  • are anxious and hypervigilant; anticipate danger
  • form a team of "us against them" with a best friend or parent
  • look to groups or authorities to protect them and/or question authority and rebel
  • are neglected or abused, come from unpredictable or alcoholic families, and/or take on the fearfulness of an overly anxious parent

Sixes as Parents

  • are often loving, nurturing, and have a strong sense of duty
  • are sometimes reluctant to give their children independence
  • worry more than most that their children will get hurt
  • sometimes have trouble saying no and setting boundaries

Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

The Enneagram Made Easy
Discover the 9 Types of People
HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages


You are not completely happy with the result?!
You chose CY

Would you rather have chosen:

  • AY (EIGHT)
  • BY (FOUR)
  • CX (TWO)
  • CZ (ONE)



  • My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:
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    You scored higher than 0% on ABC
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    You scored higher than 53% on XYZ
    Link: The Quick and Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test
    I couldnt decide between A and C on the 1st question
    the Asserter
    Test finished!
    you chose AY - your Enneagram type is EIGHT.

    "I must be strong"

    Asserters are direct, self-reliant, self-confident, and protective.

    How to Get Along with Me

    • Stand up for yourself... and me.
    • Be confident, strong, and direct.
    • Don't gossip about me or betray my trust.
    • Be vulnerable and share your feelings. See and acknowledge my tender, vulnerable side.
    • Give me space to be alone.
    • Acknowledge the contributions I make, but don't flatter me.
    • I often speak in an assertive way. Don't automatically assume it's a personal attack.
    • When I scream, curse, and stomp around, try to remember that's just the way I am.

    What I Like About Being a Eight

    • being independent and self-reliant
    • being able to take charge and meet challenges head on
    • being courageous, straightforward, and honest
    • getting all the enjoyment I can out of life
    • supporting, empowering, and protecting those close to me
    • upholding just causes

    What's Hard About Being a Eight

    • overwhelming people with my bluntness; scaring them away when I don't intend to
    • being restless and impatient with others' incompetence
    • sticking my neck out for people and receiving no appreciation for it
    • never forgetting injuries or injustices
    • putting too much pressure on myself
    • getting high blood pressure when people don't obey the rules or when things don't go right

    Eights as Children Often

    • are independent; have an inner strength and a fighting spirit
    • are sometimes loners
    • seize control so they won't be controlled
    • figure out others' weaknesses
    • attack verbally or physically when provoked
    • take charge in the family because they perceive themselves as the strongest, or grow up in difficult or abusive surroundings

    Eights as Parents

    • are often loyal, caring, involved, and devoted
    • are sometimes overprotective
    • can be demanding, controlling, and rigid

    Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

    The Enneagram Made Easy
    Discover the 9 Types of People
    HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages


    You are not completely happy with the result?!
    You chose AY

    Would you rather have chosen:

  • BY (FOUR)
  • CY (SIX)
  • AX (SEVEN)
  • AZ (THREE)



  • My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:
    free online dating free online dating
    You scored higher than 71% on ABC
    free online dating free online dating
    You scored higher than 53% on XYZ
    Link: The Quick and Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test

    Thursday, February 16, 2006

    My Weekend

    I'll be at PantheaCon at the San Jose DoubleTree all weekend. I've got a chiropractor appointment, Friday at 130PM, so I'll hit the hotel sometime between 2-3....and be leaving Monday hopefully well before 3PM. If anyone is going to be there too, and wants to say HI....give me a ring. 707-567-9510 is the cell.

    Sunday, February 12, 2006

    Saturday, February 11, 2006

    Am I?

    VVirile
    AAmbivalent
    LLovable
    IImportant
    AAmbitious
    DDreamy
    EEarthy
    RRaw
    EExquisite
    KKeen
    IInspirational
    NNew

    Name / Username:

    Name Acronym Generator
    From Go-Quiz.com

    Monday, February 6, 2006

    Who

    Is this person & why is he reading my LJ?? http://leatherlasvegas.livejournal.com/profile

    Succubus

    suc·cu·bus ( P ) Pronunciation Key (sky-bs) also suc·cu·ba (-b) n. pl. suc·cu·bus·es or suc·cu·bi (-b, -b) also suc·cu·bae (-b, -b) 1. A female demon supposed to descend upon and have sexual intercourse with a man while he sleeps. 2. An evil spirit; a demon. So....I was called by this name Saturday night by a lovely wench.... So.....I don't have intercourse with men while they sleep....so I guess that means I fit definition #2? Incubus is the male demon for women....and I don't think I fit that either..... So, what's a lesbian sex demon to be called? :)

    Friday, February 3, 2006

    I don't think it's too far off

    Your Five Factor Personality Profile
    Extroversion: You have medium extroversion. You're not the life of the party, but you do show up for the party. Sometimes you are full of energy and open to new social experiences. But you also need to hibernate and enjoy your "down time." Conscientiousness: You have high conscientiousness. Intelligent and reliable, you tend to succeed in life. Most things in your life are organized and planned well. But you borderline on being a total perfectionist. Agreeableness: You have medium agreeableness. You're generally a friendly and trusting person. But you also have a healthy dose of cynicism. You get along well with others, as long as they play fair. Neuroticism: You have low neuroticism. You are very emotionally stable and mentally together. Only the greatest setbacks upset you, and you bounce back quickly. Overall, you are typically calm and relaxed - making others feel secure. Openness to experience: Your openness to new experiences is high. In life, you tend to be an early adopter of all new things and ideas. You'll try almost anything interesting, and you're constantly pushing your own limits. A great connoisseir of art and beauty, you can find the positive side of almost anything.

    Thursday, February 2, 2006

    If You're Seeing This....

    You might have missed the 2 posts I made last month regarding having mstrs_valia@yahoo.com hacked....and if you want me to have it, I'd really like to have your contact info again. Also, I've recevied a few reports that the Yahoo IM mstrs_valia is still out there & occasionally talks to people on my IM list. If you have 'talked' to me via IM in the last few weeks.....it might not have actually been me. I have not used mstrs_valia for anything since December 27, 2005. valiaderekin@yahoo.com is my NEW address & IM handle. Original post made on 12/27/05 If anyone received a YAHOO IM from me with the message below Found this for Xmass laughs , www.geocities.com/for.laughs Merry Xmass all I am sorry! Apparently it's some sort of spam, and anyone who clicked on the link and entered their name/password may have their account compromised. I did.....I can not access my IM or e-mail....because somehow my password & personal information have been changed. I'm sorry for any trouble this has caused anyone else. Those of you who want me to have you on IM or in my email address book (and after what just happened, I'll understand if you don't)....please let me know. Post is locked, comments are screened.