Odd thought for the day

Well, yesterday actually. I'm microwaving lunch and this is what pops into my head.... Do vegans give and/or receive oral sex? Yes, that was a rhetorical & facetious question. I was just letting my mind wander (to sex, go figure) and I was thinking about one of the euphemisms of oral sex was 'eating someone out.' Since vegans don't eat meat of any type....would oral sex count? No rhyme or reason behind it, just the random weirdness that is Valia.

Apparently I need to work on this

Dilettante You scored 45% Experience, 60% Adventurousness, 62% Kinkyness, and 45% Corrupt!

You have definitly found your way to pleasure. You know what you like and continue to do it. Do not hesitate to continue to push your limits. Do not get stuck only doing what is comfortable. Sometimes we learn the most about ourselves when we push ourselves harder and further on the journey to self discovery. Please remember to rank my test. Thank You

My test tracked 4 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender: You scored higher than 75% on Experience You scored higher than 50% on Adventurousness You scored higher than 50% on Kinkyness You scored higher than 75% on Corruption

Link: The Sexual Experimentation Test written by LadyLilithDreams on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test

Split Personality

Which is the real me? or

So Like.....

Wow....lame, but it's the best thing I can say about my scene last night. I'm so not one to 'kiss & tell'.....but I just can't keep this to myself. Grab The Wench, shove her across the room and not so gently up against a cross. Rip or cut off most of her clothes. (I do like stuff like that once in a while.) Knives, thuddy floggers, slappy things......moans, Oh Gods, quivery lower lip, smiles..... Toss everything back in the bag, untie her.....follow The Wench downstairs. Wrestle a little (I think she let me win)....laugh about the fact that I'm having troubles getting on the ill-fitting gloves. Stroking, sinking myself into her.....guidance, Oh god, more, sigh, smile......too intense. Wrestle a little more.....The Wench seems to have an appetite for my thin satin pants.....otherwise known as how to torture me with oral sex that is millimeters & worlds away from touching me. I have a major limit that I bent the hell out of last night. In honour & respect of my husbands' wishes, I don't have sex in mixed gender scenarios. If he can't watch, it's hardly fair to let some random guys I probably don't even know watch. So.....The Wench grabbed a blanket & we stuck the the letter of my limit. Soft moans, minor convulsions......grasping sheets.....ok that was nice. Moments later.....more, there, oh yes....thrashing, clawing, crying, laughing.....mind shattering orgasm(s). Softly holding each other, laughing.....damn it's 1AM and I have to leave and The Wench has to help clean up the dungeon. We kiss, we part, we promise more later.

How do you love me?

The Five Love Languages

My primary love languages are probably
Physical Touch and Quality Time.

Complete set of results

Physical Touch:		9
Quality Time:		9
Words of Affirmation:		6
Receiving Gifts:		4
Acts of Service:		2

Information

Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

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Stolen from voyeurprincess

I've bolded the parts I agreed with.

the Questioner Test finished!

you chose CY - your Enneagram type is SIX. "I am affectionate and skeptical" Questioners are responsible, trustworthy, and value loyalty to family, friends, groups, and causes. Their personalities range broadly from reserved and timid to outspoken and confrontative. How to Get Along with Me Be direct and clear. Listen to me carefully. Don't judge me for my anxiety. Work things through with me. Reassure me that everything is OK between us. Laugh and make jokes with me. Gently push me toward new experiences. Try not to overreact to my overreacting. What I Like About Being a Six being committed and faithful to family and friends being responsible and hardworking being compassionate toward others having intellect and wit being a nonconformist confronting danger bravely being direct and assertive What's Hard About Being a Six the constant push and pull involved in trying to make up my mind procrastinating because of fear of failure; having little confidence in myself fearing being abandoned or taken advantage of exhausting myself by worrying and scanning for danger wishing I had a rule book at work so I could do everything right being too critical of myself when I haven't lived up to my expectations Sixes as Children Often are friendly, likable, and dependable, and/or sarcastic, bossy, and stubborn are anxious and hypervigilant; anticipate danger form a team of "us against them" with a best friend or parent look to groups or authorities to protect them and/or question authority and rebel are neglected or abused, come from unpredictable or alcoholic families, and/or take on the fearfulness of an overly anxious parent Sixes as Parents are often loving, nurturing, and have a strong sense of duty are sometimes reluctant to give their children independence worry more than most that their children will get hurt sometimes have trouble saying no and setting boundaries Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele The Enneagram Made Easy Discover the 9 Types of People HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages You are not completely happy with the result?! You chose CY Would you rather have chosen: AY (EIGHT) BY (FOUR) CX (TWO) CZ (ONE)

My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender: You scored higher than 0% on ABC You scored higher than 53% on XYZ

Link: The Quick and Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test

I couldnt decide between A and C on the 1st question

the Asserter Test finished!

you chose AY - your Enneagram type is EIGHT. "I must be strong" Asserters are direct, self-reliant, self-confident, and protective. How to Get Along with Me Stand up for yourself... and me. Be confident, strong, and direct. Don't gossip about me or betray my trust. Be vulnerable and share your feelings. See and acknowledge my tender, vulnerable side. Give me space to be alone. Acknowledge the contributions I make, but don't flatter me. I often speak in an assertive way. Don't automatically assume it's a personal attack. When I scream, curse, and stomp around, try to remember that's just the way I am. What I Like About Being a Eight being independent and self-reliant being able to take charge and meet challenges head on being courageous, straightforward, and honest getting all the enjoyment I can out of life supporting, empowering, and protecting those close to me upholding just causes What's Hard About Being a Eight overwhelming people with my bluntness; scaring them away when I don't intend to being restless and impatient with others' incompetence sticking my neck out for people and receiving no appreciation for it never forgetting injuries or injustices putting too much pressure on myself getting high blood pressure when people don't obey the rules or when things don't go right Eights as Children Often are independent; have an inner strength and a fighting spirit are sometimes loners seize control so they won't be controlled figure out others' weaknesses attack verbally or physically when provoked take charge in the family because they perceive themselves as the strongest, or grow up in difficult or abusive surroundings Eights as Parents are often loyal, caring, involved, and devoted are sometimes overprotective can be demanding, controlling, and rigid Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele The Enneagram Made Easy Discover the 9 Types of People HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages You are not completely happy with the result?! You chose AY Would you rather have chosen: BY (FOUR) CY (SIX) AX (SEVEN) AZ (THREE)

My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender: You scored higher than 71% on ABC You scored higher than 53% on XYZ

Link: The Quick and Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test

My Weekend

I'll be at PantheaCon at the San Jose DoubleTree all weekend. I've got a chiropractor appointment, Friday at 130PM, so I'll hit the hotel sometime between 2-3....and be leaving Monday hopefully well before 3PM. If anyone is going to be there too, and wants to say HI....give me a ring. 707-567-9510 is the cell.