This Weekend

I'll be attending this http://baycon.org/2006/index.php and staying Friday afternoon - Monday morning here http://www.doubletree.com/en/dt/hotels/index.jhtml?ctyhocn=JOSE-DT If anyone's going & has any interest in running into me.... gimme a ring. 707-567-9510

Only 2

1. Yourself: Not Bad 2. Your car: Purple Flames 3. Your hair: Very Red 4. Your mother: Rather Not 5. Your father: Somewhat Caring 6. Your Favorite Item: Many Books 7. Your Dream Last Night: No Dreams 8. Your Favorite Drink: Cream Soda 9. Your Dream Home: Victorian Mansion 10. The Room You Are In: Living Room 11. Your Pet: Human or? 12. Your fear: Being Unloved 13. Where You Want to be in Ten Years: Forbidden Word 14. Who you hung out with last night: BDSM Munch 15. What You're Not: Terribly Confident 16. Your Best Friend: My Slave 17. One of Your Wish list Items: Less Weight 18. Your Gender: Rather Femme 19. The Last Thing You Did: Wash Clothes 20. What You Are Wearing: Work Clothes 21. Your Favorite Weather?: Sunny Warmth 22. Your Favorite Book: Gone Wind 23. Your relationship: Which one? 24. Your job: Former, LEAVE! 25. Your image: Nothing Particular 26. The Last Thing You Ate: Lumpia Shanghai 27. Your Life: Pretty Good 28. Your Mood: Somewhat Blah 29. The last person you talked to on the phone: Random Employee 30. Just two more: Kisses Bites

BOLD what I agree with

TYPE M You scored 100 imagination, 70 confidence, 20 dominance, and 37 generosity!

You are a KINKY, CONFIDENT, SUBMISSIVE lover who prefers to RECEIVE. This means that: You like relatively kinky sex, and you have the great imagination that will always keep your partner guessing and excited! There's no getting bored with you around, you could never settle for dull sex, you want something fun and new all the time. You aren't afraid to try out anything you hear about. You might just be an intelligent lover who needs to be mentally engaged, or perhaps you have some dirty dark secret kinky desires, but either way, you're never boring. You are pretty confident in bed. This means that you know you can please your lover. Maybe you've read a lot of sex manuals, or have the experience from previous lovers, or just tend to be skilled at whatever you get your hands on, but you're good and you know it. You can really get results and know that you have pure talent, so you won't be hiding away shy, pretending to be all innocent. Your partners love your naughty self assurance, you don't hesitate and this makes you a sensational lover. You tend to be submissive in bed, so you prefer to go along with what your lover likes rather than your own plans. You might like being ordered around and acting out a slave/master fantasy, or perhaps you just get turned on by being helpless and unable to move. Or maybe it's as simple as you lacking courage so prefering firm instructions in bed to make sure you are doing things right. Either way, you won't be dominating your lover anytime soon, and might prefer the missionary position to any others. You would rather Receive than Give. This usually applies more to Oral sex than anything else, and other types of foreplay. This could be for a number of reasons. Maybe you are just very hooked on the sensation of orgasm, maybe you feel you deserve to be treated like a god/goddess, maybe you just aren't confident about your skills when it comes to returning the favour. Maybe you are lazy. Or maybe your partner loves to give and that suits you fine, so everyone is happy. Either way, remember to be a giver sometimes too, as long as your partner likes it. WE SUGGEST YOU TRY: Being Blindfolded and even tied up with scarves, and letting your partner tease, tickle and delight you, in the most tempting way. You are confident and imaginative enough to not mind them doing all sorts of fun things to you, surprises and frustratingly out of your reach pleasure. Just like back and enjoy, and maybe you can return the favour, maybe not.

My test tracked 4 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender: You scored higher than 99% on imagination You scored higher than 99% on confidence You scored higher than 99% on dominance You scored higher than 99% on generosity

Link: The What's your sexual style? Test written by lu-mina on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test

Today's Horoscope....should have been for Friday

Leo July 22 - August 22 All the positive energies generated by the celestial atmosphere seem to be coming together today, dear Leo, as you experience a rush of sensual passion for a romantic partner. An unexpected encounter could not only fulfill this desire, but bring you closer together. If you're not already committed, expect to discuss it tonight. Be careful, though, to exercise a little restraint. If you push too hard your lover could panic. Specifically the unexpected encounter & discussion part. A certain Wench got together with a certain slave of mine....and conspired to surprise me. Said Wench was supposed to be at a karaoke party.....which got canceled at the last moment....which she neglected to tell me when we were chatting on the phone Friday evening while I was on the way to SF. Both conspirators seemed very interested in where I wanted to go for dinner (Basil Thai)....but I didn't get the point.... 10 minutes or so after getting to Basil....The Wench is standing at our table.....and I'm floored....ever so intelligently I say "I thought you were going to the karaoke party." Side note - I've been talking with slave Vicki for a long time now about how I can learn to be more service oriented...specifically to accept service & to learn to ask for service instead of doing things myself all the time. Vicki's new job is to train me in this....mostly by reminding me when/where I can give her & others opportunities to serve (like when shopping for clothes, make her hold the clothes & re-hang them neatly after I try them on). Vicki also decides to enlist the Wench's help & explains to her what I'm trying to learn/do (or not do as the case may be). OK, back to the story.....The 3 of us get to Sedusa's Sanctuary....to having Miss Courtney greet us by shouting "I didn't tell!!!"....apparently she was part of the conspiracy too. :) The Wench made a point of telling me....at least twice "You know my limits. Keeping those in mind, you can have anything you want tonight." Hmm.....heady & potentially foolish offer to a sadist. :) But before anything could commence...I had to have A Talk with her....NOW....while we were face-to-face & I still had the courage....So we went the quiet corner near the restrooms & I screwed up my lilly-livered guts & told her that I loved her. The response/reaction was positive...but I'll let her discuss that more if she wants. So....the 3 of us trooped downstairs & I started the little gears in my head turning. The Wench had asked me for a more intense/pain oriented scene a few weeks back...and I was finally ready to give it to her. I had her strip out of her sexy knee-high suede boots & form fitting & Oh So Sexy navy sweater-dress, which was clinging lovingly to her every luscious curve. I tied her hand & foot to the open rectangular frame & had Vicki unpack & arrange my toys on a nearby table. 1st thing I did was test her 'have anything you want' claim....by putting 2 clamps on her nipples....1 of which was PINK....she hates pink....but she accepted it & didn't even combust or go into convulsions. :) What followed later was an assortment of implements....some she liked (A LOT), some she didn't like at all (darn what a shame). 1 of her favorites is a thuddy purple 1" diameter clear plastic rod.....thudding on her upper thighs & oh so near her clit. She made some comment about wishing she could take it harder....I decided that she didn't much have a choice about what she could or could not take...and I whacked her fairly hard on her right thigh.....lovely LARGE parallel red marks immediately bloomed at the impact point. Being a nut for symmetry, I had to do it again, on the left thigh. The Wench took both blows well, very well indeed. :) Later I was chasing her around (well as much around as you can get when you're tied to the 4 corners) with a leather paddle, and then with a rubber mini-flogger. Stingy little sucker....leaves lovely marks....I believe she hates it. :) But...she took it....all of it. For me....the only down-side was at 1 point when I made mention of how easy it was to tell if she liked something by her obvious reactions....she decided to prove some sort of point by going all quiet & stoic on me for about 5 minutes. Rather annoying....made me want to HURT her more, just to force her to react....but I managed to corral that impulse. I ended the scene with her absolute favorite....a very heavy mop-style flogger I have. HEAVY THUD! The Wench just adores that.....so I spent oh, maybe 10-15 minutes with that & she was in outer space. :) I took her down, had slave Vicki pack the bag for me, while the Wench & I carefully walked to the room with the 2 beds. The Wench was all floaty for a while....then she decided that the best aftercare involved me losing some clothes & getting a few orgasms....OK who am I to complain...but do you notice the switch of power here? :) Something about a hot female wanting to fuck me into oblivion that makes me all acquiescent. :) So....a hot sweaty moaning while later, slave Vicki quietly comes in a gently suggests that we might want to be polite & give up the room. So we adjourned to the couch near the stairs....and then the Wench wanted to get fucked herself....so we went to the Medical Room & I had my way (ok her way) with her. :) Later.....we won 2 sets of leather cuffs during the raffle & watched an intense scene (not my details to give). I then agreed to take the Wench home, so she didn't have to deal with MUNI. On the way, I made it CLEAR, I wasn't coming in....I had to get home myself. HA...I'm so weak! I came in to use the bathroom....and agreed to stay 1/2 hour....PERIOD!! So....more hot sweating screaming sex ensued....and I held to my resolution and left after 1/2 hour! (yay me for being strong) I think she was surprised that I stuck to my guns...but really, I had no choice. Hubby expects me home by 4am....I was dead tired as it was & still had a 45-minute drive...and I had nothing I needed for the next morning (toiletries, meds, clothes). So....that's the LONGEST damn way of explaining why the horoscope that started this post....was meant for Friday, not Monday.

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New Hair

This is what you get when a white chick uses hair dyes meant for Afro-Americans.

Do you love me?

Matchmaker, matchmaker..... (Tevye) "Golde, I have decided to give Perchik permission to become engaged to our daughter, Hodel." (Golde) "What??? He's poor! He has nothing, absolutely nothing!" (Tevye) "He's a good man, Golde. I like him. And what's more important, Hodel likes him. Hodel loves him. So what can we do? It's a new world... A new world. Love. Golde..." Do you love me? (Golde) Do I what? (Tevye) Do you love me? (Golde) Do I love you? With our daughters getting married And this trouble in the town You're upset, you're worn out Go inside, go lie down! Maybe it's indigestion (Tevye) "Golde I'm asking you a question..." Do you love me? (Golde) You're a fool (Tevye) "I know..." But do you love me? (Golde) Do I love you? For twenty-five years I've washed your clothes Cooked your meals, cleaned your house Given you children, milked the cow After twenty-five years, why talk about love right now? (Tevye) Golde, The first time I met you Was on our wedding day I was scared (Golde) I was shy (Tevye) I was nervous (Golde) So was I (Tevye) But my father and my mother Said we'd learn to love each other And now I'm asking, Golde Do you love me? (Golde) I'm your wife (Tevye) "I know..." But do you love me? (Golde) Do I love him? For twenty-five years I've lived with him Fought him, starved with him Twenty-five years my bed is his If that's not love, what is? (Tevye) Then you love me? (Golde) I suppose I do (Tevye) And I suppose I love you too (Both) It doesn't change a thing But even so After twenty-five years It's nice to know