Avoiding Ex's

Something I've heard a lot about over the years....."Oh I can't go there, my ex hangs out there and I don't want to deal with him/her." If you are a rather....um.....promiscuous for lack of a better word, person like me.....you eventually end up with a lot of ex's.....and if you stop going to places because you don't want to run into an ex....sooner or later, you'll run out of places to go, and you just be a couch potato watching Jerry Springer re-runs. Lets see....what would I have to have given up to avoid my ex's.... Rocky Horror 1988 - I'd be avoiding JH, and SD SCA 1988-89 - I'd be avoiding BW, JR, DL, and JS Rocky 1989-1993 - I'd be avoiding GM, DS, BM, MS, and RR Baycon 1989-Present - I'd be avoiding DS, BM, MS, RR, KG, SC, and MM Pantheacon 1997-Present - I'd be avoiding JH, GM, KG, SC, and ML BDSM events 1992-Present - I'd be avoiding ML and DR So....some of the things I'm most interested in......I would have to had stopped going to.....just to avoid the ex's......the potential drama & heartache.....BUT is sitting home alone a better prospect?