Sanity Check?

Ok, let me put out first....I am not intending to offend anyone, or to start a fight/argument/loud discussion. So...those of you that know me....know as far as BDSM goes, I ID as top/dominant/sadist. There is a Halloween themed Queer BDSM party on the Friday before Halloween. I'm toying with the idea of being a bottom/submissive/masochist for the party, as my 'costume.' I have matching collar, wrist & ankle cuffs, plenty of outfits that I could wear....and I'm thinking of having a trusted friend or 3 join Vicki in a scene of topping me (thuddy floggers, sensual stuff, maybe violet wand....nothing stingy, or too intense of a sensation, since I am not that much of a pain-slut). Keep in mind that if I do this, it's my way (yes I top from the bottom, get over it). All limits should be adhered to, and I will end the 'masquerade' at the slightest provocation.