Friday, October 29, 2004

Am I worth it?

I'm worth $1,891,047.83! How much are you worth?

Thursday, October 28, 2004

Sexy Meme

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Tuesday, October 26, 2004

For all you Poly Folks

This was provoked by nothing....just kinda popped into my head. For those of you who are, or have been in poly relationships.... If you & 1 partner have a disagreement or fight do you expect/hope/want your other partner(s) to - 1. Stick up for you (defend you), even if you might be in the wrong? 2. Be the mediator and help you reconcile with the partner your disagreeing with? 3. Be mad at your other partner, just because you are? 4. Just leave you alone, knowing that you'll work it out alone, or ask for help if you need/want it? 5. None of the above, some other option?

Monday, October 25, 2004

Question #31

WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU CRIED? I can't remember I had been thinking about this off & on....it seemed odd to me that I couldn't even remember when I last cried. The last 2 times I can remember.....in April when Dana & I split up, and a few weeks ago when I dented my car door.

Sunday, October 24, 2004

Stolen from K'shandra

Let's Play 50 Questions WHAT IS YOUR FULL NAME? Heather Colleen Cary or Valia Aryanna Derekin WHAT COLOR PANTS ARE YOU WEARING? red sweatpants WHAT ARE YOU LISTENING TO RIGHT NOW? TNA Wrestling WHAT WAS THE LAST THING YOU ATE? Some chocolate cake & some cheesecake DO YOU WISH ON STARS? yes IF YOU WERE A CRAYON, WHICH COLOR WOULD YOU BE? Purple HOW IS THE WEATHER RIGHT NOW? Partly Sunny (as opposed to partly cloudy....I'm an optimist) LAST PERSON YOU TALKED TO ON THE PHONE? Vicki DO YOU LIKE THE PERSON THAT SENT THIS TO YOU? I stole it from her, but yes, she is a fine person indeed. HOW ARE YOU TODAY? Still trying to wake up. FAVORITE DRINK? Caramel macchiato/frappachino FAVORITE ALCOHOLIC DRINK? Mudslide FAVORITE SPORT? Watching - professional wrestling & ice skating. Playing - none HAIR COLOR? golden-blonde EYE COLOR? blue DO YOU WEAR CONTACTS? No, I had Lasik a few years ago. # OF SIBLINGS? None that I know of. FAVORITE MONTH? July FAVORITE FOOD? seafood, Chinese & Indian LAST MOVIE YOU WATCHED? Shawn of the Dead FAVORITE DAY OF THE YEAR? My wedding anniversary, my birthday & Halloween WHAT DO YOU DO TO VENT ANGER? Depends on the situation, sometimes I'll just swallow it, sometimes I'll cuss, sometimes I'll have it out with the person I'm angry at. WHAT WAS YOUR FAVORITE TOY AS A CHILD? Lincoln Logs SUMMER OR WINTER? Summer HUGS OR KISSES? AND CHOCOLATE OR VANILLA? Chocolate DO YOU WANT YOUR FRIENDS TO RESPOND TO THIS? Sure WHO IS MOST LIKELY TO RESPOND? *shrug* Depends on who's in a meme mood when they see it. WHO IS LEAST LIKELY TO RESPOND? See above LIVING ARRANGEMENTS? With my husband in a 2/3 unpacked home WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU CRIED? I can't remember WHAT IS UNDER YOUR BED? Nothing, we have a Captain's Bed WHAT FRIENDS HAVE YOU HAD THE LONGEST? K'shandra & I have known each other since 1989, my husband since 1991, and Vicki since 1997 WHAT DID YOU DO LAST NIGHT? I went to Society of Janus 30th Anniversary party at the Citadel FAVORITE SOUNDS? music, cries of pleasure, voices of loved ones WHAT INSPIRES YOU? My own desire to be someone. WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF? Being alone PLAIN, BUTTERED OR SALTED POPCORN? butter & salt, or Jolly Time Cheddar FAVORITE CAR? My PT Cruiser FAVORITE FLOWER? Sterling silver roses NUMBER OF KEYS ON YOUR KEY RING? 1 housekey, 2 work keys, 2 car keys, 2 handcuff keys, and 2 suitcase keys CAN YOU JUGGLE? Objects, no. Lovers, usually. FAVORITE DAY OF THE WEEK? Saturday WHAT DID YOU DO ON YOUR LAST BIRTHDAY? I can't remember. Probably went to Reno or the Wine Country WOULD YOU RATHER READ OR WATCH T.V.? Unless it's watching professional wrestling, I'd rather read. WHAT ARE YOUR HOBBIES? Reading, listening to music, collecting items, clothing, people..... MOUNTAINS OR BEACHES: AND AS A HOMEMAKER, WHAT JOB DO YOU HATE THE MOST? I wouldn't really classify myself as a homemaker....that's so.....50's. PETS? 1 cat, 1 dog, 1 Vicki DO YOU TRUST THE CURRENT PRESIDENT ENOUGH TO RE-ELECT HIM THIS NOVEMBER? You couldn't pay me enough to help put George Bush into office again.

Friday, October 22, 2004

My Voting Record

Kerry
You preferred Kerry's statements 89% of the time
You preferred Bush's statements 11% of the time

Voting purely on the issues you should vote Kerry

Who would you vote for if you voted on the issues?

Find out now!

Directions to Casa de Cary

Address = 30690 Carroll Ave. Hayward 880 North (Towards Oakland) Exit on Whipple/Industrial Follow exit slightly to left, and then straight through the light. Keep following it straight as the road forks to the left. You will be merging onto Industrial into the far right lane. Drive straight until you get to Mission, and turn right onto Mission. Drive straight until you get to Fairway, and turn right onto Fairway. Drive all the way to the end & find a place to park. We are on the right corner of Fairway & Carroll Lost? 510-324-8778

Wednesday, October 20, 2004

I didn't THINK this needed to be said.....but I guess I was wrong....

The HOUSEWARMING/HALLOWEEN party that my VANILLA husband & I are having on the 30th.....is NOT a BDSM and/or sex party. Co-workers, neighbors, family & people under the age of 18 WILL be here. If this is a problem.....then I'm sure you can find more entertaining places to go, say at The Citadel.

Tuesday, October 19, 2004

Tooting my Own Horn

For the last 2 years - I've gotten the highest rating that my company gives to non-exempt (hourly) employees. Damn, I'm good. Or as the reviews say.....SUPERIOR. :)

Monday, October 18, 2004

Honestly shalyndra I didn't copy you!!

Pain? Moi? painful nightmare
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Sunday, October 17, 2004

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Friday, October 15, 2004

Haunted Housewarming

If you can see this....that means you''re invited. :) (Some people may get more than 1 copy since I'm doing Tribe & email too) Well, we're starting to get settled here in Hayward, and we're getting the house nicely decorated for Halloween, so it must be time for a combination Halloween/Housewarming party! Where: Hayward/Union City border (RSVP gets you directions) When: Oct 30th, 7PM until we kick you out. Why: Heck if I know... Who: You! What (we will be providing): Some snacks, some alcohol... nothing too elaborate since Rik is still not working. If you want to bring something to eat or drink to share, that would be great. Costumes are not mandatory, but are strongly encouraged. Here's a preview pic of what we have up so far... www.perfessorevil.com/images/flagpole1.jpg I don't think you will have any problems figuring out which house is ours. Let us know if you are planning on attending, and how many. Thanks! Rik and Heather (Valia)

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Thursday, October 14, 2004

I'm a Copy Cat

Name a CD you own that no-one else on your friends list does: Bagpipes & Drums of Scotland Name a book you own that no-one else on your friends list does: By Love Betrayed - Sandra DuBay Name a movie you own on DVD/VHS/whatever that no-one else on your friends list does: Bloodsucking Freaks Name a place that you have visited that no-one else on your friends list has: Beaver Island, Michigan

Which Fits Me?

My Birth Name - Heather Name Origin: English Number of Syllables: 2.00 Gender: Female More interesting facts about the name Heather: Lucky Number: 2 Ruling Planet: The Moon Element: Water Primary Color: Orange (NO!) Traits: Sensitive, domestic(HA!). Tends to be emotional and easily influenced to tears(True). Has a fertile imagination. Very fond of the home. Patriotic(Not Really). Accepts changes in surroundings(Usually). Prefers to live near the water. Often possesses musical talents(Does singing count?) and would make a very good psychic. My Chosen Name - Valia Name Origin: Not available or unknown Number of Syllables: 3.00 Gender: Male (OH REALLY?) More interesting facts about the name Valiant: Lucky Number: 7 Ruling Planet: Neptune Element: Water Primary Color: Violet Traits: Frequently possesses E.S.P. Extremely "psychic"(I used to be...dormant now); Introvert(Nope). Although s/he does not say much, s/he usually knows a great deal. Mysterious. Often interested in psychology(Got my BA in it), psychiatry, chemistry, and botany. Knowledgeable in astrology and all fields of the occult. Fond of fishing(NOT!). Inclined to take from the "haves" and give to the "have nots". http://www.thenamesite.com/

Tuesday, October 12, 2004

Feeling.....brave?

I remember this as some sort of exercise....can't recall where/when I saw it....but here it goes. Name 1 thing about me that you think is good, or that I do well. (Physical attributes do not count). Name 1 thing that you think I need to change or work on. (Same caveat as above) Feel free to comment anonymously if that makes you more comfortable.

Monday, October 11, 2004

I'm easily amused

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Doonesbury

Anyone ever looked at the URL's that Doonesbury will sometimes reference in the dialogue of their comic strips? I got curious & looked at today's. Interesting reading, even for the non-political types such as me. http://www.theunionleader.com/articles_showa.html?article=44657

Tuesday, October 5, 2004

Rocky Horror Political Show

Normally I don't pass these on....but this one was pretty funny. http://new.sendafriend.com/funpages/view.cfm/5809

Monday, October 4, 2004

Feminine Musings

So what the hell does a femme girl wear with one of these things anyways? https://secure.utilikilts.com/catalog-survival-index.htm I bought it in the sage color.