For all you Poly Folks

This was provoked by nothing....just kinda popped into my head. For those of you who are, or have been in poly relationships.... If you & 1 partner have a disagreement or fight do you expect/hope/want your other partner(s) to - 1. Stick up for you (defend you), even if you might be in the wrong? 2. Be the mediator and help you reconcile with the partner your disagreeing with? 3. Be mad at your other partner, just because you are? 4. Just leave you alone, knowing that you'll work it out alone, or ask for help if you need/want it? 5. None of the above, some other option?