Dickens Fair

http://www.dickensfair.com/ Rik & I are going next Saturday, 12/6. Anyone else interested?

Things in the Sky

I like this portion from below - When someone wrongs you it better be something they never do again. You may forgive them once, but you will never forget and a second time can cut them totally out of your life. Slowly...it's beginning to be more & more true.

Okay, yes, I know the moon is not a planet.

The moon, is, however, the Earth’s only natural satellite and the fifth largest natural satellite in our solar system. For this reason alone it could be that it has life on it, right? Yes, there have been many explorations to prove otherwise, but for many years people on Earth believed that the moon was inhabited. It is also the only celestial body that man has stepped upon.

There are a dozen gods and goddesses associated with the moon. The word Lunar, which relates to the moon’s cycle, is from the Latin word Lunar. One of the reasons that people tend to associate a female deity with the moon might be related to the female menstrual cycle. With that said, it’s is definitely time to move along before I get myself in trouble.

What does this say about you?

You desire contact with the world around you. You have a loving and nurturing nature, but you can suffer from mood changes and go through cycles. You aren’t afraid to stand up for what you believe in or to even stand up for the little guy that tends to get beat up on or forgotten. You probably even tend to put other people before yourself.

As a child of the moon you have a cold and warm side. When someone wrongs you it better be something they never do again. You may forgive them once, but you will never forget and a second time can cut them totally out of your life. You can be the life of the party, but only if it suits you. You are just as happy finding a few people that you can talk to and more than likely there are very few people that you can’t talk to.

You probably usually have a smile on your face and make people feel comfortable with you. You are just one of those people that others open up to and then wonder why.

So, moon child, in a way you are just like the tide. You ebb and flow in life and you like it best when you are in control.

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Your rainbow is shaded indigo.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What is says about you: You are a proud person. You appreciate cities, technology, and other great things people have created. People are loyal to you and see you as a natural leader.

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70/30 huh?

They are epic if I do say so myself

Your result for The How Nice Are Your Tits Test...

Baby got a rack!

Of all the tits in the world, yours are better than 87% of them. Wear them proud!

You've maxed out the chart with your sweet sweet ta-ta's. They are shaped, sized, and nippled to perfection. Please, take a picture of them and e-mail them to me -- better yet come on by some evening so I can play with them, I promise you I will be eternally greatful.

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Your result for The Long but Good Kinky Switch Test...

77 % Kinky, 47 % Switchy, 21 % Bottom, 55 % Top

So, there you have it... a realistic appraisal of how kinky and switchy you are.

Scoring low in both is a vanilla personality - nothing wrong with that, mind you.

High in kinky and high in top is is the "typical top" profile; seek out someone with similar levels of "kinky" but who scored high in "bottom".

Similarly, high in "kinky", high in "bottom", but low in "top" and "switchy" means you're a bottom. Find a top...

High in both kinky and switchy implies you ought to find another kinky switch; otherwise you'll end up being frustrated half the time!

Good luck and good hunting!

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Pretty Hats

I like pretty hats. I want more pretty hats for Dickens, but I don't want to pay the pretty hat prices at Dickens. I have 3 complete outfits. Dark purple/white/black, black/gray/silver/white and black/gold/burgundy/brown/ivory. Any thoughts on these 2 hats? http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&ssPageName=STRK:MEWAX:IT&item=370112290503 http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&ssPageName=STRK:MEWAX:IT&item=360108622204 EDIT The hats do look similar, biggest difference - 1 is accented with silver, the other with burgundy.

Dickens Faire

http://www.dickensfair.com/ Rik & I are wanting to go. Anyone else interested? Haven't picked a date yet...but several dates are out for us. No on 11/29-30, 12/14 & 12/20. Other than that...fairly flexible, but want to plan something out soon before the rest of my calendar gets tied up.

Color Me Amused

Hot Young Thing has been talking to me on IM & OKC for a few weeks. Hot Young Thing was a bit antagonistic in her initial contacts, asking if I had what it takes to control the likes of her. I didn't take the bait. Now when Hot Young Thing talks to me...it's as if she expects me to leap at what she's offering & be grateful for it. Um...yeah, thanks. I don't think so. You might be 23 & have a great body...but if this is an example of your personality, you ain't worth it. Not to mention her total disdain for bi women who are already attached to a male. Sheesh honey, I'm up-front about it. If you think women like me are good for nothing but an occasional fuck...please walk away and find someone else who will jump at the game that you are wanting to play.

Countdown

T minus 10 days I tried to think of another poker title to go with 'Upping the Ante', but nothing was coming, so now you get NASA. Anyways...I don't know if what I said made a difference, or if the Universe just finally came together and gave Vicki the exact combination of what she wanted. She had found a place with a mutual friend. The house is in the South Bay. They signed the paperwork & put money down yesterday & she has already started moving stuff in. She claims that she'll be completely out of my house & Rik's garage by 11/30/08.

The Movie Star

Your result for What Spice Are You Test...

You are Ginger!

0% Habanero, 20% Sage, 10% Thyme, 50% Ginger, 10% Garlic, 10% Curry, 0% Cinnamon and 0% Oregano!

You are versatile and yet rather erratic!

You can be hot or sweet, it just depends on your mood that day. Sometimes people overlook you and don't give you enough credit for who you are. They try to take advantage of you often, but you aren't one to just sit back and let it happen. When you've had enough you definitely let them know.

You can be a bit moody and have definitive up and down times. It makes being with you a challenge at times, but you have so much personality that being your friend is very much worth the challenge.

You can be very popular, and you don't mind being so. You are more a leader than a follower. You have a wide range of interests and abilities. In your opinion life is too short so you should do as much as you can during your lifetime.

You have your own flair and style, but you still look to see what it trendy.

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Humbly Serve huh?

www.tarot.com For the Week of Nov 17th, 2008 -- Big emotions and grand gestures may not have the dramatic effect you're looking for this weekend. Being more modest and down-to-earth may not sound sexy, but it's what can work to earn you affection. Your willingness to humbly serve others pays off in getting the love you desire.

Upping the Ante

On Wednesday I told Vicki that if we are forced to evict her - That will be the end of our relationship too. Unfortunately...if her current behaviour is any indication...it didn't make a difference.

You Know You're a Clothes Horse When

You are thinking of what to wear to a BDSM prom, and you think of over a dozen dresses (from traditional to kinky) that you have that would be appropriate.

Not looking for a lifetime

www.tarot.com For the Week of Nov 10th, 2008 -- Dreams of romance may be delightful late in the week, Leo, but be careful or your fantasies can lead you astray. The object of your affection may not be totally real. If you're able to dance lightly in your heart without trying to turn a moment of pleasure into a lifetime commitment, you should be able to avoid trouble.

Well, my license plate is a form of Valkyrie

Your result for The Mythological Goddess Test...

Freya

Freya, twin sister of Frey, is a member of the Vanir family, the Norse clan of Fertility Gods. Like her counterparts, Aphrodite, Isis, Venus, and Ishtar (Greek, Egyptian, Roman and Indian mythology), she concerned herself with sex and all that goes with it.

She was quite fond of cats, by the way. In fact, she was said to travel about in a magnificent chariot drawn by her two regal black cats named Bygul and Trjegul (Pronunciation? You're on your own...) that were rumoured to be possessed. After serving Freya for 7 years, the cats were rewarded by being turned into witches, disguised as black cats. Even many of her personal traits seem cat-like. For instance, she always wore a brilliant jewel studded collar symbolizing her authority over the fiery aspect of sexuality.

Besides being the Goddess of love, cats, the moon, magic, and of course sex, Freya was also skilled in a form of magic called "seithr" (meaning "sayer" or "seer") which consisted of putting oneself into a deep meditative trance so that the secrets of the future might be revealed. She also owned a feather coat which she could use to fly between the worlds.

The Fifteen Goddesses

These are the 15 categories of this test. If you score above average in …

…all or none of the four variables: Neit. … Erudite: Minerva. … Sensual: Aphrodite. … Martial: Artemis. … Saturnine: Persephone. … Erudite & Sensual: Isis. … Erudite & Martial: Sekhmet. … Erudite & Saturnine: Nemesis. … Sensual & Martial: Hera. … Sensual & Saturnine: Bast. … Martial & Saturnine: Ilamatecuhtli. … Erudite, Sensual & Martial: Maeve. … Erudite, Sensual & Saturnine: Freya. … Erudite, Martial & Saturnine: Sedna. … Sensual, Martial & Saturnine: Macha.

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Bursting Bubbles

Our first 'date' several weeks ago was a lovely one. The play at Edges was a combination of getting to know each other more mentally & physically. The evening later at the hotel was lovely too, but I'm not going to share the details on that. :) So...she asked if she could join me last night (a few days ago). I warned her that I was really interested in socializing (because there's people at SCCLA parties that I see so infrequently), and that I couldn't guarantee play, and/or sexual interaction between us. She said she understood. She also had read my last rant & was concerned if I was happy playing with her because she's not a heavy masochist. No, she's not...but she is a fun person to play with. Her reactions are delicious, and I told her that. Dinner was amusing...we both got lost getting to the place (and she was coming from Turlock). My dinner was supposed to be chicken, but it was fish....I sent it back, and they sent it back to me insisting it was chicken. She & I both ate it...it was fish, but tasty all the same. Towards the end of dinner she asked if I was going to be up for play. I was honest & said I didn't know. I had a stomachache earlier & was still feeling that a little. So, we got to Edges & I did what I said I was going to do, socialized. I made sure to introduce her to people. We watched a really fantastic performance/scene. I was close to her most of the night, always touching when we were together. Some sexual teasing, lots of stroking. I gave her a back massage near the end of the evening. Anyways...I think she was very disappointed with me. I warned her. She made the drive from Turlock, fully aware that I might not want to play. I think she had hopes that I would anyways. I wanted to, a little...but not enough to really do it...and I'm not going to go through the motions anymore. I hope she still wants to come around. But, I suppose I'll understand if she decides that I'm not worth the drive again.

I get the oddest presents

This is what I'll be doing with my Christmas Eve. http://www.essure.com/

This is Fucked-up

With 91% of the precincts counted... 52% yes 48% no 8 looks like it will pass. http://www.kcbs.com/Prop-8-Headed-to-Victory/3262087 http://vote.sos.ca.gov

Things I'm Sick & Tired Of

1. Male friends who think that being friends with me means that it's OK for them to constantly push my limits & give me a hard time about my life decisions. Let me put it as clear as I can...I don't find it funny. Get the fuck over yourself. If you can't have an interaction with me that does not involve stomping all over my limits...then I think it's time that we agree to disagree and shift our relationship to that of polite acquaintances. I'm tired of just being nice about it. I'm tired of just turning the other cheek & pretending that it's just all fun & games. It's not. I'm not having fun, and the decisions I make in my life are not a game to me. If you can't respect me and respect that I live the life that I want to and that I am basically happy with...then please do us both a favor and leave me alone. 2. People who think I am defective in some way because I am not playing with someone every time I go to a dungeon. Guess what? More often than not, I'm just not in the mood to play. I'm tired, I'm depressed, I'm so sick of my life sometimes and all I want to do is just be around people who will talk with me and be nice to me. Holy Fuck! I've been in the scene for 16 years. I spent a lot of that time playing when I didn't want to, because I thought it was what a "real" player did. I also spent a lot of time either playing with people I wasn't truly interested in...playing for the experience or for the sake of playing, or playing with people who I really wasn't that compatible with...and then I ended up feeling empty afterward. I spent years in the mode of give give give...and it was not terribly often that I got a whole lot in return. I am a sadist. I like to hurt people, a lot. Maybe not to the level of blood letting & bone breaking....but I do like it when they move and think of me 2 days later because something is still sore. I got tired a long time ago of having to always hold myself back....playing at a lower level than was satisfying FOR ME, just so I could have people to play with. I learned a while ago, I had 2 choices, I could either keep holding back, just so I could have some interactions....or I could just not play and instead just BE with people. I like talking, I like flirting, I like the barely contained sexual attraction I share with a few people. Do I want to beat the hell out of someone on a regular basis...sure...but I've gotten to the point where I want it on my level, not theirs. I spent a year (a few years ago) playing with a wonderful woman who could take everything I had to give (and sometimes wanted more). After having that...it was hard as hell to go back to "dialing it down" to suit the levels of others. Currently, there's just not a whole lot of people out there that I want to play with and who want to play with me. I'm picky. Other people are picky. Put the 2 levels of picky together, and you end up with a very small pool of people to play with. When it comes right down to it, after a long week of working in a place where I don't want to be, and having a problem at home that is being difficult to deal with....when I have the choice of either playing with someone where I know I won't get much from it, or just socializing....I'll be more than happy to pay my $20 to the dungeon just to do nothing more than talk to my friends. If people have a problem with that, then I'll make the suggestion to them that I made to the males in my life. If you disapprove of how I live my BDSM life, if you disagree with the decisions that I make for myself...then it is time that we too also become polite acquaintances.