Friday, April 30, 2004
Tuesday, April 27, 2004
Karma?
This was on one of my public email lists.....it's written by the DM I referred to in my last post. All identifying info (make of car, life situation) has been stripped.
It looks like I had a toy bag, and a cd player, lifted from my car in front of the Citadel Saturday, actually it was down the block 3 or 4 doors.
The bag had both my single tails and a tom cat in it, not to mention three high end floggers and a horsehair flogger, and a lot of other stuff. The bag itself was a gift and fairly expensive being made of leather (black of course).
If anyone knows anything or saw someone rummaging through my car, please contact me off list.
Monday, April 26, 2004
Throwing your weight around
So, after looking at all my BDSM oriented email lists, groups, and tribes.....I realize this is the only place I can say what I want, and not have to deal with the person who is my topic of discussion.
For a few years now, there has been a certain male DM who, for some reason, has had it in for me. Several times he has tattled on me to various dungeon owners.....and when he's at a party that Vicki & I are at.....he will stare at us to the exclusion of anything else.....INCLUDING doing any actual DM work.
He'll be wearing the DM badge, and carrying the First Aid bag.....but as he wanders around the dungeon, he always keeps his eyes on us.
1 time, this DM lectured me about chaining Vicki's collar to a rope wall at the San Jose Scenery. Now, picture this if you can. The collar had a ring on the front, and the padlock ran through the ring & rope. If Vicki leaned back, the collar was pulled AWAY from the front of her neck. If she was standing straight or leaning forward, the collar was in a neutral position around her neck. The key was within easy reach of anyone, hanging in plain site on a post that was part of the wall. The DM tattled on me to Larry, who spoke with me. It turned out that several weeks before, someone had a bad ending to a scene, and nearly passed out because their neck was connected to that same wall.....and they nearly choked.
When I showed Larry what the set-up was, he admitted that I was being somewhat safer, and that it would be difficult for Vicki to end up in the same unfortunate situation as the other scene.
Another incident was when Spring had injured herself at the San Jose Scenery. Spring refused to go to a doctor or emergency center several times. Since Spring is a legal adult, we could not force her to get professional medical attention. If she would have gone, and told them she didn't want help, they'd just send her on her merry way. Anyways, the DM stalked over to me and informed me that since I was Vicki's owner, I should "order her" to take Spring to the hospital.
The silliest was a month or so ago. After checking around, to make sure there were NO signs upstairs at the Citadel, prohibiting food upstairs.....I got a small piece of cake & used the frosting in my scene with Dana. I made sure the food went no where but on Dana & in my mouth, and I double checked for crumbs before we vacated the space. The DM tattled on me to August, one of the owners of the Citadel. When August spoke to me, I told her that we were upstairs, and that the cake was a part of the scene. I told her that I looked for a sign saying "no food", but that I didn't see one. August told me that food was OK upstairs, as long as you cleaned up after yourself, but not downstairs because of the carpeting. I thanked her for clarifying things for me & promised to make sure I kept things neat & clean if I used food again.
The most recent incident was this weekend at the Dog & Pony Party at the Citadel. Vicki was in a iron stock-type contraption. A separate circles of metal were around her wrists & neck, with a bar separating each part. Something like this.....o-----O-----o. Anyways, Vicki and 2 of our friends wanted to go downstairs. The DM was in front of us, and warned us that Vicki shouldn't walk downstairs alone. The DM went first, then Girl #1, then Vicki, then me, then Girl #2. Girl #1 was 1 step ahead of Vicki, and I was 1 step behind, and we all walked slow, so that Vicki could keep her balance. After a while, I decided to go upstairs and get out of my corset. I told Vicki and the 2 girls that I was heading up. After I was already changed, the 3 of them came back up, 1 girl ahead & behind Vicki, making sure she was OK on the stairs.
Not more than 5 minutes after they all got back to me, the DM started berating me for leaving Vicki "ALL ALONE" to walk down & up the stairs "COMPLETELY" by herself. I told him that during both trips, she had at least 2 people spotting her, and ready to grab her if she tripped.
The DM then proceeded to go tattle on me to Phil, one of the owners of the Citadel. Phil took me aside and asked if what the DM said was true. I said 'no', that Vicki was accompanied both times, and her safety was being watched out for. Phil told me that he wasn't trying to single me out, but that because they haven't finished putting the textured tape on the stairs, they like to let people know about the potential hazard, so that they can be extra careful.
I let Phil know that I understood, however, I also told him that the DM had a personal issue with me, and that he might want to watch him sometime......I told Phil about the DM's habit of watching Vicki & I, instead of DMing.
I'm at my wit's end. This DM has had a problem with me, ever since he met me....and to be honest, I'm not really sure why. Is it because I don't find him interesting/attractive? Is it that he knows I don't much care for males...and he takes issue with that? Is he one of those dom types who has issue with females who ID as anything but submissive?
I've don't think I've been mean or bitchy with him. Mostly I've just been coolly polite....which is how I am with most people that I'm not friends with.
I suppose the 'adult' thing to do would be to confront him and find out what his problem is....but to be honest, I don't even want to be near him long enough to talk to him. He makes my skin crawl, and judging by the way he's treated me thus far....I get the feeling that my attempt at reconciliation would be in vain.
Thursday, April 22, 2004
Friday, April 16, 2004
Am I - 1, the other, both?
sadist or sadistic
1. The deriving of sexual gratification or the tendency to derive sexual gratification from inflicting pain
or emotional abuse on others.
2. The deriving of pleasure, or the tendency to derive pleasure, from cruelty.
3. Extreme cruelty.
dominant
1. Exercising the most influence or control.
2. Surpassing all others in power, influence, or position
3. Ruling; governing; prevailing; controlling
variant - dominate
1. To control, govern, or rule by superior authority or power: Successful
2. To exert a supreme, guiding influence on or over
3. To enjoy a commanding, controlling position
4. To have or exert strong authority or mastery.
5. To be situated in or occupy a position that is more elevated or decidedly superior to others.
Who knows me?
I'll post the correct answers in a day or 2. :)
1. My REAL first name:
2. Where did we meet?
3. Take a stab at my middle name:
4. How long have you known me?
5. When is the last time we saw each other?
6. What kind of car do I drive?
7. How many piercings and tattoos do I have - can you name them all?
8. When you first saw me what was your impression?
9. When's my Birthday?
10. Color hair?
11. Color eyes?
12. Do I have any siblings - if so, name them and their gender(s)?
13. Have you ever had a crush on me?
14. Have you ever been jealous of me?
15. Name my favorite childhood pet and what it was?
16. Do you remember one of the 1st things I said to you?
17. What's my favorite type of music?
18. What is the best feature about me? (Don't answer if you don't want to.)
19. Am I shy or outgoing?
20. Would you say I am funny ha ha or funny sarcastic?
21. Am I a rebel or do I follow all the rules?
22. Would you consider me a friend, an acquaintance, or a good friend?
23. Would you call me preppy, slutty, average, sporty, punk, hippie, glam, nerdy, snobby, or something else?
24. Have you ever seen me cry?
25. If there were one good nickname for me what would it be?
26. Do you know my childhood nickname?
27. Who is my favorite author?
Tuesday, April 13, 2004
Chain Letter from Mommy
Sunday, April 11, 2004
Wednesday, April 7, 2004
Monday, April 5, 2004
Yeah I copied MsLuLu
1: Grab the book nearest to you, turn to page 98, find line 6. Write down what it says.
duodecimo/ma adj: twelth (Merriam-Websters Spanish-English Dictionary)
2: Stretch your left arm out as far as you can. What do you touch first?
Glass vase full of silk roses
3: What is the last thing you watched on TV?
Extreme Makeover: Home Edition from a few weeks ago (TIVO'd).
4: WITHOUT LOOKING, guess what the time is
9:15 PM
5: Now look at the clock, what is the actual time?
9:07 PM
6: With the exception of the computer, what can you hear?
Gene Wilder & Richard Pryor in Stir Crazy, and Rik making chainmail.
7: When did you last step outside? What were you doing?
8:00 PM, I was getting out a class at TAFB.
8: Before you came to this website, what did you look at?
Tribe.Net
9: What are you wearing?
Grey slacks, burgundy top
10: Did you dream last night?
Nope.
11: Is your boss a power-hungry nut case or...?
Not really....just too scared to let go.
12: Imagine your first child is a girl, what do you call her?
Amber Marie
13: Imagine your first child is a boy, what do you call him?
I've been thinking of boys names for years. Still haven't settled on one.
14: Would you ever consider living abroad?
As long as I got to choose the location.
Friday, April 2, 2004
Have you seen?
Bold all the movies you've seen...
1. X-Men
2. The Craft
3. X2
4. Swimfan
5. Fellowship of the Ring
6. Finding Nemo
7. Peter Pan [the cartoon]
8. Home Alone
9. Aladdin
10. The Ring
11. 10 Things I Hate About You
12. Not Another Teen Movie
13. Spiceworld
14. 8 Mile
15. Bambi
16. Pirates of the Caribbean
17. Edward Scissorhands
18. Stepmom
19. My Best Friends Wedding
20. 101 Dalmations
21. Scream
22. Scream2
23. Scream3
24. Big Daddy
25. Billy Madison
26. Chamber of Secrets
27. Sorcerer Stone
28. Heartbreakers
29. Dumb & Dumber
30. Cruel Intentions
31. Scary Movie
32. Look Who's Talking
33. Blade
34. Blade II
35. O
36. Titanic
37. Carrie
38. Carrie 2: The Rage
39. Daddy Day Care
40. Legally Blonde
41. Austin Powers
42. Storm of the Century
43. Oliver and Company
44. Two Towers
45. Return of the King
46. Mighty Ducks
47. Fast and the Furious
48. 2 Fast, 2 Furious
49. A Walk To Remember
50. Triple X
51. Beauty and the Beast
52. I Know What You Did Last Summer
53. I Still Know What You Did Last Summer
54. Sound of Music
55. Mary Poppins
56. Tuck Everlasting
57. The Patriot
58. The Wizard of Oz
59. Teaching Ms. Tingle
60. Crossroads
61. Now and Then
62. Pearl Harbor
63. Just Married
64. Cast Away
65. Radio Flyer
66. Final Destination
67. Lady and the Tramp
68. Shallow Hal
69. 40 Days and 40 Nights
70. Bring It On
71. Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory
72. The Outsiders
73. The Matrix
74. Perfect Storm
75. Feardotcom
76. Never Been Kissed
77. Clueless
78. Bruce Almighty
79. Crazy/Beautiful
80. Remember the Titans
81. Girl, Interrupted
82. SWAT
83. Sixth Sense
84. PhoneBooth
85. The Lion King
86. Urban Legends
87. Nightflier
88. Lion King 2
89. Little Mermaid
90. American Pie
91. Center Stage
92. Scooby Doo
93. Bedazzled
94. Mrs. Doubtfire
95. Save the Last Dance
96. My Girl
97. American Beauty
98. Romeo & Juliet(not the decaprio one, the old one)
99. Lost World
100. Casper
101. American History X
102. Bowling for columbine
103. Original Sin
104. Tomb Raider
105. Tomb Raider 2
106. Gia
107. Hackers
108. Jackass
109. Jeepers Creepers
110. Jeepers Creepers 2
111. Gothika
112. American Wedding
113. Frida
114. Memento
115. They
116. Light It Up
117. Gone in 60 Seconds
118. The Good Girl
119. The Great Gatsby
120. Great Expectations
121. Scarface
122. God Father
123. Snatch
124. Fight Club
125. Empire Records
126. Akira
127. Swordfish
128. Almost famous
129. The Breakfast Club
130. Chicago
131. 50 First Dates
132. Pi
133. Rocky Horror Picture Show
134. Freaks
135. The Nightmare Before Christmas
136. Big Fish
137. The Crow
138. Aimee and Jaguar
139. Kissing Jessica Stein
140. But I'm a Cheerleader
141. Lost Souls
142. Prozac Nation
143. Lost and Delirious
144. Show Me Love
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