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sadist or sadistic 1. The deriving of sexual gratification or the tendency to derive sexual gratification from inflicting pain or emotional abuse on others. 2. The deriving of pleasure, or the tendency to derive pleasure, from cruelty. 3. Extreme cruelty. dominant 1. Exercising the most influence or control. 2. Surpassing all others in power, influence, or position 3. Ruling; governing; prevailing; controlling variant - dominate 1. To control, govern, or rule by superior authority or power: Successful 2. To exert a supreme, guiding influence on or over 3. To enjoy a commanding, controlling position 4. To have or exert strong authority or mastery. 5. To be situated in or occupy a position that is more elevated or decidedly superior to others.