Seperate Reply to Comments

After reading the comments to my last post...I thought it best to give some more details. Maybe I'm just being too sensitive....anyone reading the chat room, not knowing the history between the woman & I, would just think her partner was just being a goof. 1 comment - I was trying to remember someone's name that me & the woman I was talking to knew. I'm bad at remembering names. Anyone who has been around me often enough knows that. So, I made a joke about having such a bad memory that I have to have my own name tattooed on me. The woman's partner then broke in with 'what you're too stupid to remember?' Another comment - The woman & I were talking about recent changes to our looks. I mentioned that I have dark blonde hair now (when she last saw me it was dark burgundy). Her partner then starts making the typical dumb blonde jokes, only finding ways to apply them to me. All of the comments he was making were in that vein....seemingly joking, poking fun, but not necessarily purposely insulting.....or in my terms....plausible deniabilty.