Tuesday, March 28, 2006
So you think you don't match up? (Wench)
You question how I can be happy with 'just you', when in your POV, you don't fit what I'm looking for....well let me address that point by point.
MY PERSONAL AD
My #1 requirement - If at the end of the day, you can NOT remove your dick & put it into the drawer beside your bed....I do NOT want to hear from you.
Well, you are a woman....so that takes care of that.
NOTE OF HONESTY - I am technically bisexual, but outside of my husband, I have no interest in males. I list myself as gay, so that I won't show up as a match for males. CONSIDER YOURSELF WARNED....I'm not lying about, or hiding the fact that I am married.
You don't seem to have a problem being involved with married women, since you have some level involvement with 3 that I know of.
Do you crave the thud of a flogger, the sting of a cane or single tail, the smack of a paddle or bare hand? When your nipples are cruelly pinched & your breasts are grabbed hard enough to bruise, do you find yourself on the edge of an orgasm? Do you get all fluttery inside seeing a bunch of S/M toys and start to imagine all the ways they could be used on you?
You certainly seem to like my thuddier toys, and judging by the 'Oh God....you succubus' comment when I was pinching your nipples that night....I'd say you fit this area fairly well.
To make it clear, I am a sadistic top first & foremost. If you exist to serve someone and follow their every order….I may not be the person for you. While obedience IS important to me, I really want a partner who is a masochist first & foremost. Someone who takes the pain because THEY want it….not just because I want them to. Someone who ENJOYS all forms of sensation….thuddy, stingy, burning, tickling, soft caresses, hard bites….and whatever else comes into my devious little head.
While I know you enjoy service, I also know that you also enjoy sensation....especially those hard bites. While you may not self describe as a masochist, you have enough of that quality to make the sadist in me happy....and given enough time, I may learn to enjoy service enough to make that part of you happy.
Who you are - FEMALE (bio or Post Op TS), masochistic is preferred, and obedience is a PLUS. Total submission isn't required, but I must be honest & say that I don't play well with women who are SAM's or bratty most of the time. Once in a while is quite fun, but daily doses tend to wear me out & fray my temper.
You self describe as a brat....and while agree with that assessment, for some reason your brand of brattiness doesn't push my buttons. Besides, offering up instructions on how to tame you made things much easier on me....most brats don't volunteer their off switches.
I prefer intelligent, stable, mature women. Someone who's got their sh*t together, so to speak. Someone with a satisfying life OUTSIDE of the bedroom & BDSM arena, someone who would be just as happy watching TV with me, as they would be tied up & flogged by me.
I see all of this encompassed in your personality & being.
I enjoy being with you. I enjoy YOU period. Yeah, the sex is incredible...but that isn't even the biggest reason I want to be with you. You're intelligent, vibrant, talented, vulnerable, honest, articulate, and just plain fun to be with. You engage me intellectually and emotionally, as well as physically.
Now do you believe me when I say (honestly) that you are enough. Yeah, I might engage in some casual BDSM play with others.....but I'm not going to be out & out seeking it....and as far as sex goes.....I've got that from Rik & from you....anymore might kill me. :)
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