Personality by Month

- Pick your birth month. - Strike out anything that doesn't apply to you. - Bold the five-ten that best apply to you. - Copy to your own journal, with all twelve months under a lj-cut. JULY: Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people's feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. Dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Likes to be quiet. Homely person. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Prone to having stomach and dieting problems. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover. JANUARY: Stubborn and hard-hearted. Ambitious and serious. Loves to teach and be taught. Always looking at people's flaws and weaknesses. Likes to criticize. Hardworking and productive. Smart, neat and organized. Sensitive and has deep thoughts. Knows how to make others happy. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Rather reserved. Highly attentive. Resistant to illnesses but prone to colds. Romantic but has difficulties expressing love. Loves children. Loyal. Has great social abilities yet easily jealous. Very stubborn and money cautious. FEBRUARY: Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. Sexy. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest and loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizes dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions. MARCH: Attractive personality. Sexy. Affectionate. Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Loves to serve others. Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Observant and assesses others. Revengeful. Loves to dream and fantasize. Loves traveling. Loves attention. Hasty decisions in choosing partners. Loves home decors. Musically talented. Loves special things. Moody. APRIL: Active and dynamic. Decisive and hasty but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people's problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Emotional. Aggressive. Hasty. Good memory. Moving. Motivates oneself and others. Sickness usually of the head and chest. Sexy in a way that only their lover can see. MAY: Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the arts. Loves traveling. Dislike being at home. Restless. Not having many children. Hardworking. High spirited. Spendthrift. JUNE: Thinks far with vision. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating, tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Talkative. Daydreamer. Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Able to show character. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Brand conscious. Executive. Stubborn. JULY: Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people's feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. Dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Likes to be quiet. Homely person. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Prone to having stomach and dieting problems. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover. AUGUST: Loves to joke. Attractive. Suave and caring. Brave and fearless. Firm and has leadership qualities. Knows how to console others. Too generous and egoistic. Takes high pride in oneself. Thirsty for praises. Extraordinary spirit. Easily angered. Angry when provoked. Easily jealous. Observant. Careful and cautious. Thinks quickly. Independent thoughts. Loves to lead and to be led. Loves to dream. Talented in the arts, music and defense. Sensitive but not petty. Poor resistance against illnesses. Learns to relax. Hasty and trusty. Romantic. Loving and caring. Loves to make friends. SEPTEMBER: Suave and compromising. Careful, cautious and organized. Likes to point out people's mistakes. Likes to criticize. Stubborn. Quiet but able to talk well. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal but not always honest. Does work well. Very confident. Sensitive. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Must control oneself when criticizing. Able to motivate oneself. Understanding. Fun to be around. Secretive. Loves leisure and traveling. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Very choosy, especially in relationships. Systematic. OCTOBER: Loves to chat. Loves those who loves them. Loves to take things at the center. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn't pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care of what others think. Emotional. Decisive. Strong clairvoyance. Loves to travel, the arts and literature. Touchy and easily jealous. Concerned. Loves outdoors. Just and fair. Spendthrift. Easily influenced. Easily loses confidence. Loves children. NOVEMBER: Has a lot of ideas. Difficult to fathom. Thinks forward. Unique and brilliant. Extraordinary ideas. Sharp thinking. Fine and strong clairvoyance. Can become good doctors. Dynamic in personality. Secretive. Inquisitive. Knows how to dig secrets. Always thinking. Less talkative but amiable. Brave and generous. Patient. Stubborn and hard-hearted. If there is a will, there is a way. Determined. Never give up. Hardly becomes angry unless provoked. Loves to be alone. Thinks differently from others. Sharp-minded. Motivates oneself. Does not appreciate praises. High-spirited. Well-built and tough. Deep love and emotions. Romantic. Uncertain in relationships. Homely. Hardworking. High abilities. Trustworthy. Honest and keeps secrets. Not able to control emotions. Unpredictable. DECEMBER: Loyal and generous. Sexy. Patriotic. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Loves to socialize. Loves praises. Loves attention. Loves to be loved. Honest and trustworthy. Not pretending. Short tempered. Changing personality. Not egotistic. Take high pride in oneself. Hates restrictions. Loves to joke. Good sense of humor. Logical.

Coming to a Venue Near You

Vicki & I are going to this Saturday http://www.ggfaire.com/. Barring illness or injury, we'll be at The Citadel for their renaissance themed party later. Anyone else going? :)

They're only things

I suppose on certain levels, I get this...but sometimes, considering a few of the decisions I've made in my life with regards of who to like, love, and/or trust...I sometimes think I prefer the predictability & stability of my material possessions. www.astrocenter.com Leo Remember that material possessions are just that - material. At some point in your life, Heather, you are either going to lose them, ruin then, or throw them away. The only question is when and how. Don't put yourself through unnecessary emotional turmoil over the loss or damage of something tangible. Attach yourself to people, rather than material things. Good friends and loyal family members will be there for you until the end. www.astrology.com Really now? Daily Leo Something big happens in your love life and you can hardly think about anything else. It could be someone new, or maybe a milestone of sorts with your current partner. Whatever it is, keep smiling! I don't necessarily find myself so scintillating, but if others do, yay. :) Leo Single's Love It's a very special day with you around. Everyone's gonna be loving your sense of humor and that frisson of excitement you've got going. And your willingness to be adventurous is most advantageous in the love department! This is too damn funny, since we're in a belt tightening stage right now. Leo Couple's Love The two of you have been frugal and practical long enough. The stars say it's time for some judicious extravagance. Drop some cash on a spur-of-the-moment trip. The fun and romance you'll experience will be priceless.

The stars are staring at me

www.astrocenter.com Leo Have you resolved to stop dating, Heather? Not you! Don't be surprised if you're extraordinarily popular today, in spite of the fact that your self-confidence has undergone a change. It is still very much present, but is now fed from an internal source rather than an external one. It is nice to be popular, to be sure, but it is no longer as important to you as it once was...

Seeking Professional Opinion

Rik & I are going to a costume party in January - and we're most likely going as Roger & Jessica Rabbit. For those of you who are costumers/sewing pros Do you think this (dress has corset lacing in back and is cut to just above the tush) Can be altered to look similar to this?

Still

Breath taking Heart wrenching but somehow I was able to keep up a facade.

oh so tired

SMFlea went well, for me. :) I sold about 2/3 of my stuff. Not sure what I'm going to do with the items I didn't sell...this is getting to be a tiring venture.

15 Seconds of Fame

As seen on www.smflea.com vendor list Valia Derekin Closet Cleanout - Women's clothing sizes 16-22. Frederick's of Hollywood style corsets, vinyl pants, lace tops, 2 custom leather corsets (closed waist of 34"), dresses from Torrid, and more.

Busy Weekend

Saturday - Invite only BDSM party @ a lovely place w/ a pool. YAY, naked swimming! Sunday - SM Flea I'm selling mostly sizes 16-22. Frederick's type corsets/bodices. Skirts, tops, dresses & pants from Hot Topic/Torrid, 2 pairs of leather pants, 2 custom leather corsets (34" closed). If anyone's interested, I'll posted the updated list.

Vanity Plate

Seen this afternoon on a black Lamborghini PREAPZM So, is the owner being funny & meaning priapism, or am I reading too much into this? :)

SM Flea

Once again I'll be trying to sell my fetish/party clothes. http://www.smflea.com/ Sunday, 8/12/07 2:00pm-5:00pm

Life in the Fast Lane

Home all alone for the evening & my exciting plans are watching wrestling & deciding whether to have KFC or Spaghetti-o's for dinner.

School Daze

It's 2AM & I'm finally home

Sidewalk sale was pretty much a bust for me (although a friend bought some stuff from me later at the party @ Edges). I don't get it. For years I've had people tell me that if I'm ever getting rid of my clothes, to let them in on it... 2 times I've done these sale/flea things & 2 times all these people who are dying for my clothes are nowhere to be found. I'm torn now. Do I drag my ass to the Kinky Flea next Sunday & see if I can sell stuff there? Do I deal with the hassles of EBAY & trying to get stuff mailed out on a timely basis? I don't want to keep the clothes & it's also stuff that isn't really 'suitable' for donating to religious based thrift stores... (sigh) On the bright side, I spent the whole sale with a potential new girl... and I was graced with the presence of a rather hot friend of mine who bought an amazing red PVC bodice/corset & was kind enough to model it for us. NWMs was great, but I was too tired to really have fun at the party after. My 'school-girl' outfit was a hit though. Picture a very short purple plaid skirt w/ silver skull & crossbone snaps & a matching zip front halter/vest that didn't stay zipped too well (shucky darn it all).

Sale & party

1:00 - 6:00 - I'll be selling fetishwear & party clothes at the Leather Master's Sidewalk Sale. 8:00 - ??? - I'll be at Edges for the NWMs party So, if you want to see me, now you know where to find me. :)

Sale List

This is what I'm selling tomorrow @ Leather Master's. Please excuse the format, it was from a spreadsheet. CORSETS - FOH/Hot Topic stuff pink paisley 30 $15.00 purple canvas 30-36 $50.00 red spandex/lace 30 $20.00 columbia 31 $50.00 white spandex/lace 31 $30.00 black denim halter 32 $20.00 black vinyl renaissance 32 $40.00 gold satin 32 $20.00 pale gold 32 $15.00 pleather 32 $20.00 snake vinyl 32 $20.00 tiger 32 $20.00 white satin 32 $30.00 blue edwardian 33 $20.00 gold sequin 33 $20.00 purple renaissance 34 $20.00 black stretch denim 35 $15.00 black vinyl w/ snaps 35 $40.00 flame vinyl 35 $25.00 black/silver priest 40 $20.00 CORSETS - Custom black leather zip 34 $125.00 black/blue leather zip 34 $125.00 DRESSES turquoise suede strapless 10/12 $75.00 black w/ sheer sleeves 20 $15.00 black w/ white V-neck 20 $15.00 burgundy slashed chain sleeves 20 $20.00 red vinyl cheer 2X $25.00 white vinyl cheer 2X $25.00 black sequin semi-formal 3X $75.00 SHIRTS black glitter s/s M $2.00 black/red glitter s/s M $2.00 purple/silver s/s M $2.00 vanilla lace s/s M $2.00 black lace up front L $3.00 black w/ sheer sleeves L $3.00 black/red lace up front L $3.00 black/silver 3/4 slv L $3.00 blue denim renaissance L $5.00 blue lace s/s L $2.00 purple lace s/s L $2.00 sequin tube L $10.00 blue sequin XL $20.00 denim halter XL $10.00 purple/iridescent XL $5.00 gold belly dance 36-40 $50.00 blue glitter 2X $5.00 leather vest 2X $20.00 pink velvet tank 2X $3.00 red glitter 2X $5.00 black mesh s/s 3X $2.00 black sequin tank 3X $3.00 black lace blouse 4X $10.00 PANTS/SKIRTS lamb leather pants 18-22 $40.00 velvet snake skirt 18 $5.00 black A-line skirt 20 $30.00 black/burgundy spider web skirt 20 $10.00 black/white vinyl snake skirt 20 $10.00 blue suede mini skirt 20 $20.00 blue vinyl pants 20 $25.00 purple vinyl pants 20 $25.00 silver vinyl mini skirt 20 $10.00 black/red snake skirt 2X $5.00 Wilson's men's pants 38 $75.00

Taking Stock

So, went through most of my corset/bodice type things. I'm getting rid of 19 Frederick's of Hollywood type corsets/bodices ranging in closed waist size from 26"-40". Hi, my name is Heather (Valia) and I am a corset addict.

Alrighty Then

www.tarot.com Well, this is interesting. Rik is going to be in Chicago from this coming Saturday-next Thursday...so does that mean I'll be having option 2? Leo Weekly Love Horoscope for week ending August 5 Valia, Restlessness or boredom can have you seeking out new fields of pleasure this weekend. If you have a partner, get out of your routine to help keep love alive together. If you're single, a sudden interest in someone who is not your type should at least provide some short-term fun.

Birf-Day

Spankings were given, fun was had. 2 men & 2 women graciously volunteered their back-sides for my tender ministrations of 37 swats. 1 with a huge wooded paddle w/ holes, 2 others with the corian & 1 with an escrima stick. I like this birthday thing. :)

Par-Tay

I've had a change of plans for the weekend & find myself to be free tomorrow (Saturday) night. I'm going to Edges to celebrate my birthday (a day late). Anyone want to go? Spankings will most likely be GIVEN...although, if the right women ask, I might be convinced to take a few. :)

A little light in my life

To find me a birthday present - Rik braved the wilds of a shopping mall & got this for me at Spencer's. Hey Courtney - It comes in pink too. :)

Birthday Horoscopes

www.tarot.com Today's Outlook The Moon enters conservative Capricorn at 2:20 am EDT, reflecting our need to be sensible over any desire to feel pleasure. We aren't as interested in immediate gratification unless it is a stepping-stone to something more. But our desires may remain unfulfilled, for Venus the Lover apparently stands still in her tracks today as she enters her 6-week retrograde phase. Patience is our keyword as we look back before moving forward again on September 8. Leo The most annoying thing about today is the feeling you should be doing something different from what you're actually doing. This might not be a big enough deal for anyone else to even notice, but it can add frustration to your day. One solution is to put yourself into motion to take care of a few of the items on your "to do" list, even if there are obstacles to overcome. Birthday Outlook You like to have fun no matter where you go, and people are magnetically attracted to your dynamic personality. www.astrology.com Daily Leo Have faith that the right thing will come along at the right time and in the right way. If you can hold onto that belief, it'll make passing up situations that aren't a good fit a lot easier. Uphold your standards! Daily Leo Extended When good news comes your way today, don't try to mask your enthusiasm for it -- after all, showing how excited and happy you are is part of feeling that excitement and happiness, so let it all out! It's admirable for you to want to save someone else's feelings by downplaying this turn of events, but you're not doing them any favors. You have every right to feel your joy wholly and completely. Do not taint it by holding back because you feel too guilty. Leo Lesbian Make sure you listen to everything she says if you really want to help her out. Be careful you don't get too heated up by the end of her first sentence, either. You have to keep a level head to be of any service to her. Leo Single's Love Your exuberance is terrific, but in all your excitement you might miss something -- or someone. Know when to dial it down a little bit and tune into what (and who!) is going on right in front of you. Leo Couple's Love Your relationship takes a few surprising turns. Amazingly, they turn out to be exactly what you need, although you never could've come up with them on your own. The stars know how to deliver a plot twist! www.msn.com Leo Try not to get too wrapped up in the mental side of things, dear Leo. Perhaps you are trying to work everything through in your mind. What you will find is that there are strong forces outside your own that are trying their hardest to manipulate your way of thinking. It might be a good idea to step away from the situation and do more processing with your heart. Go with your gut instinct instead of relying so much on your thoughts on the matter.

But I'm Poly

www.astrocenter.com Your Horoscope for JULY 26, 2007 An instant attraction to a fascinating new person in your life could take you by surprise today, Heather. If you aren't presently attached, this could pave the way for a new romance. If you are, however, watch out! As the situation may seem like a scene from an old Clark Gable movie or pulp novel, it could be very tempting. The urge to act may pass within a day or two, so hang in there.

These are my favorite things

Seen & stolen - Fill in the blank and ask me the following: Valia, what's your favorite __________?

Early Warning

Leather Masters is having a Sidewalk sale on 8/4/07 from 1pm-6pm. I'm going to have a table & be selling some of my used fetish clothing. I don't have a full list at the moment, but a few things to tempt you with... 2 leather corsets from Alter Ego Erotics - Both are renaissance bodice style. Zip up the front, lace up the back. 1 is all black, 1 is black with a navy front. Both have a waist measurement of 34" fully closed. 2 vinyl mini-dresses from Torrid - Both are tanktop style w/ pleated skirt. 1 is red, the other is white, and both are size 2X (would fit 18-22). I might have a couple of formal gowns, vinyl pants & vinyl tops from Hot Topic, some sexy dresses from Torrid, a few corset/bodice type items from Frederick's & the like. The full list will be posted as the date gets closer. Most items will fit people in the 18-22 size range. There might be a few things in the 12-16 range, but I won't know until I go through the pile. So...for those of you who've been dying to get into my clothes, here's your chance. :)

Msn.com's take on Leo's

When the mighty Lion enters center stage, everyone knows it. This dramatic, creative, and outgoing sign has the keyword "magnetism" for good reason. Fiery and self-assured, it's almost impossible to resist the Leo's charm. Whether it's time spent with family and friends, or on the job scene, a Leo is going to bring much to the table. Friends and Family By far the most generous Sun Sign, Leos make loyal and giving friends. They'll go out of their way to help, even when it conflicts with their own schedule. The Leo is a strong, confident personality who has the ability to make almost everyone comfortable. Unassuming and gracious, they love to host parties and events. The Leo is rarely found alone - interacting is second nature. Close friends are chosen for their ability to keep up with the Leo's energy, along with a strong sense of dignity and a commitment to individual values. When family is involved, the mighty Lion will do whatever it takes to defend loved ones. Leo loyalty lasts a lifetime. They pride themselves on being there for family through thick and thin. Career and Money Leos are doers. "I will" is the key phrase for this sign. There's a lot of energy packed into this sign, and they're always going to be busy, regardless of whatever else is happening around them. They are ambitious, creative, and optimistic. It's not enough to just do the job for a Leo. In order to suffice, it must be done to the absolute best of their ability. Once committed to an employer, they will go all out, but the best situation for the Leo is to be their own boss. Careers that allow for the Leo's dramatic flair, such as acting and entertaining, are ideal. Such positions give the Lion free rein. Other occupations such as management, teaching, and politics are well suited too. Anything that puts a Leo in a leadership position will give this sign the opportunity to do what comes naturally to them. Leos love to surround themselves with the things they fancy. Since money usually comes readily to the Leo, there's always more where that came from. "Money is meant to be spent" as far as this sign is concerned - and spend they will. Generous in spirit, a Leo will give away their last dollar to help a friend out. They're always confident that there will be more, and there usually is. There's never a lack of work for a Leo. In fact, there's generally more work available to them than they can keep up with. Love and Sex This fiery sign is passionate and forthright with their affections. When it comes to sex, you can expect the Leo to be adventurous, fun and highly energetic. There is a definite line of division between sex and love for Leos. Mates are chosen for their willingness to allow the Leo to take the lead, shine brightly and be independent. They look for uninhibited lovers who aren't self-conscious. As accepting as the Leo is, a mate needs to be an intellectual equal to cut the mustard. Leos are loving, fun and very giving to those in their personal life. Strengths: Ambitious, courageous, creative, faithful, generous, honorable, humorous, open-minded, organized, powerful, self-aware, resolute Weaknesses: Arrogant, authoritarian, egocentric, exaggerating, intolerant, jealous, narcissistic, proud, hypersensitive, vain

Dig Dig Dig

Heather -- [noun]: A hard-core grave robber 'How will you be defined in the dictionary?' at QuizGalaxy.com

Desire

I either need to have a windfall or a sugar-mommy. http://cgi.ebay.com/PLUS-SIZE-ELEGANT-LEATHER-CORSET-DRESS-Steel-Boned-Dom_W0QQitemZ140139804397QQihZ004QQcategoryZ11522QQtcZphotoQQcmdZViewItem

It gets even better

www.astrology.com Leo Lesbian Someone has you on her mind today. Be prepared for unexpected romantic overtures, dinner and a movie, and maybe a little hanky panky. Keep your plans flexible and your heart light. You're in for an exciting ride. Leo Single's Love Share your oddest thoughts and most impulsive feelings with abandon. If they don't get it, the better for you to move right on to someone who does -- and loves it. The stars say finding such people is easy now!

Any takers?

From msn.com Leo July 22 - August 22 A long-term friendship could suddenly develop into something more right now, dear Leo. You could suddenly see this person in a new light, and realize that this is a very attractive human being. It might come as a shock to you, however, and it could take a little time to get used to the idea. Don't push it away for that reason, however. Just approach with caution and see where it takes you. Go with the flow!

Pet my kitty?

Your Score: Ceiling Cat

44 % Affection, 16 % Excitability , 42 % Hunger

You are a master of stealth. They never see you coming. But you always see them coming. HEY-O!

Link: The Which Lolcat Are You? Test written by GumOtaku on OkCupid Free Online Dating, home of the The Dating Persona Test

You Know You're an Adult When...

You are paying your mom's bills. Mom is at least 2 years behind on her property taxes ... and can't pay enough to keep them happy (I say at least 2 because she can't seem to tell me the correct amount owed. It was $2500 Saturday, $1800 yesterday, and today it was $1100). I don't want her living with me (ever), so I agreed to pay the immediate back taxes, and we're looking into having the County just send me the tax bill & I'll pay it from here on out. $600 a year is pretty much nothing to me (Michigan is cheap isn't it?), but she only makes 20K or so a year, so it's a massive amount for her.

On Conversations

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Confusion among the stars

www.astrology.com So, either I already have someone, or I'm looking for someone. Which is it? Fuzzy, innocent & cute?? Please, give me a break! Daily Leo Someone is turning you upside down and into knots. You've got it bad, but sometimes it feels so good. Go with it. The secret to life is learning to be comfortable with all your feelings, especially the weird ones. Leo Single's Love You're as fuzzy, innocent and cute as a kitten right now, and all you have to do to get some lovin' is meow. It's a good thing, because the usually bold 'n' beautiful Lion could use a little TLC at the moment.

Any Luck?

So, shall I place a bet in Reno or something? I'll be 37 on 7-27-07. That's a lot of 7's.

Really Bad Letter

I read this in the Dear Prudie column in The Slate today. Dear Prudie, My daughter is 5 years old and has, like most girls her age, a hamper's worth of stuffed animals. While she has her favorites, she constantly wants more and usually connives to get someone (read: her grandparents) into procuring a new one every couple of weeks. The new one immediately becomes her favorite and she must sleep with it every night and haul it around half the day. My question is: Does this behavior indicate she'll be overly promiscuous as an adult, or at least unable to commit to a single partner? —Perhaps Overly Worried Father Dear Perhaps, Of course that's what it indicates. You'd better start thinking now about what you're going to do when she's a young woman and throws over that big, chubby guy with the annoying laugh, Barney, for the sexually ambiguous Tinky-Winky, whom she then dumps for that moron, Elmo, who every time they come over asks you to get down on the floor and tickle him. —Prudie

Three Words Only

1. Where is your cell phone?: In my purse 2. Your boyfriend/girlfriend?: Don't have one 3. Your hair?: Need to dye 4. Where is your father? Upper Peninsula Michigan 5. Your favorite sex act? Receiving much oral 6. Your favorite thing to do? watch pro wrestling 7. Your dream last night?: Stole my car 8. Your favorite drink?: Vanilla Cherry Cream 9. Your dream car?: I own it 10. The room you're in? The family room 11. Favorite underwear? lacy boy shorts 12. Your fear? Having no love 13. Favorite musical instrument? 2 tone keys 14. Who did you hang out with last night?: Vicki and friends 15. What you're not good at?: Asking for help 16. Muffins? Blueberry or corn 17. One of your wish list items?: Lots of money 18. Where did you grow up?: Lots of states 19. The last thing you did?: Ate my dinner 20. What are you wearing?: Boring work clothes 21. Your pet Dog, cat, Pony 22. Your MySpace Same name here 23. Your computer?: Works for me 24. Your life?: Not bad considering 25. Your mood?: Tired, achy, content 26. Missing?: some good friends 27. What are you thinking about right now?: Three Word Answers 28. Your car?: Needs a wash 29. Your work?: Needs an upgrade 30. Your summer?: a little dull 31. Your relationship status?: Married, slave, looking 32. Your favorite color(s): Purple, burgundy, blue 33. When is the last time you laughed? At work today 34. Last time you cried?: 2 months maybe 35. School?: Sex degree please?

But I'm not fond of Orange

Your Kiss is Orange

For you, kissing is all about pushing the envelope. You're a wild kisser. And you don't have to know someone all that well to kiss them. (You figure that's how you'll get to know one another!) While you may be impulsive with who you kiss, there's nothing random about your kissing technique. Kissing Type: Unconventional People See Your Kisses as: Intoxicating You Kiss Best With: A Red Kisser Stay away from: A Pink Kisser

What Color Is Your Kiss?

Hearse Sighting

If we can get the hearse running tomorrow - I'll be driving it to here http://southerncrossca.blogspot.com/ and letting them use it & the coffin for photo shoots.

Sensible Goals

I'm not exactly sure what 'sensible career goals' is. I've pretty much let go of my 'pie in the sky' dream of my bookstore. I'm not sure how much more sensible I can get than what I already do. www.tarot.com Leo (Jul 23 - Aug 22) You may be thinking about learning something new. It's time to make it happen, whether your education is experiential or academic. Travel is still being encouraged, either in the physical realms or within your mind. Now, however, you'll benefit from applying your ideas toward more sensible career goals. Integrate your desires with common sense and you can't go wrong. www.astrology.com My true self? Gifts & blessings? The only place I hide anymore is at work, and I do not believe that my current batch of co-workers really need to know my truth. As far as the rest goes, I suppose compared to some, I have had it good. There are times though, (damn my overactive mind) that all I can do is look at all the things that were less than gifted & blessed. Daily Leo Let your true self shine. Sometimes you feel you have to apologize because you've had so many gifts and blessings in your life, but keeping your light under a bushel doesn't help anyone, least of all yourself. In most cases, I think forgiveness is a good thing. However, if I've written someone out of my life, it's for a good reason. I don't let go or give up easily, long after most people would have walked away. But when I'm done, I am done. Daily Leo Extended Everyone makes mistakes -- and you should keep that in mind when someone who once wronged you reappears on the scene. You can choose to hold on to a grudge, or you can choose to let go of the past and give this person one more chance. Put yourself in his or her place, and be willing to listen to what he or she has to say. You'd be wise to be a bit cautious with this person, but the stars say that forgiveness is a wise course now.

Truly Hearing Goes Beyond Listening

www.tarot.com Leo (Jul 23 - Aug 22) It may be difficult for you to express your feelings today because you're not sure if other people are really listening to you. Chances are, however, they are hearing every word you say; it's probably just your fear of not being heard that makes you think you're being neglected. Go ahead and say what's on your mind without prejudging the situation. One of the things that the Carnegie book & 1 of my recent webinars on communication discussed was that listening was more involved than people give credit to. It's about genuinely paying attention to and hearing what a person is saying. Many people, during a conversation, are thinking about how they are going to reply before they even hear everything that is said. or worse, they're giving 1/2 an ear or less to the conversation and thinking about something that happened earlier, what's for dinner tonight, how to finish next weeks project...you get my point. I know I'm guilty of this...and it is something I am going to work on. if someone is taking the time to talk to me, I should at least do them the courtesy of paying full attention to what they are saying. www.astrology.com So, I wonder what this is getting at. Leo Daily Couples Love Now is the best time for you to open up and discuss previously taboo subjects with your sweetie. You should both have the perspective you need to really deal with them in a mature fashion.

Personality

What I think would be more telling is to have your friends/loved one take this test, answering how they see you. How/who you think you are can be quite different from how/who everyone else thinks you are. Plus, there's also the difference of - when you answer for yourself - are you answering for how you really are, or how you want to be?

Advanced Global Personality Test Results Extraversion |||||||||||||||||| 76% Stability |||||| 30% Orderliness |||||||||||||||| 66% Accommodation |||||||||||||||| 70% Interdependence |||||| 30% Intellectual |||||||||||| 43% Mystical |||||||||||| 50% Artistic || 10% Religious |||| 16% Hedonism |||| 16% Materialism |||||||||||||||||||| 90% Narcissism |||||||||| 36% Adventurousness |||||| 30% Work ethic |||||||||||||||| 70% Self absorbed |||||||||| 36% Conflict seeking || 10% Need to dominate |||||||||||||||||||| 90% Romantic |||||||||||||||||||| 83% Avoidant |||||| 23% Anti-authority |||||||||||||||||||| 90% Wealth |||||||||||| 50% Dependency |||||| 30% Change averse |||||||||||| 50% Cautiousness |||||||||||| 50% Individuality |||||||||||||||||||| 90% Sexuality |||||||||||||| 56% Peter pan complex || 10% Physical security |||||||||||||||||||| 90% Physical Fitness || 10% Histrionic |||||||||||||||||| 76% Paranoia |||||||||||| 43% Vanity |||||||||||| 50% Hypersensitivity |||||||||||||||||||| 90% Female cliche |||||||||||||||||||| 90%

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personality tests by similarminds.com Stability results were low which suggests you are very worrying, insecure, emotional, and anxious. Orderliness results were moderately high which suggests you are, at times, overly organized, reliable, neat, and hard working at the expense of flexibility, efficiency, spontaneity, and fun. Extraversion results were high which suggests you are overly talkative, outgoing, sociable and interacting at the expense too often of developing your own individual interests and internally based identity. trait snapshot: self revealing, neat, craves attention, prefers organized to unpredictable, needs things to be extremely clean, worrying, perfectionist, emotionally sensitive, respects authority, social, vain, does not like to be alone, likes large parties, controlling, social chameleon, not a thrill seeker, enjoys leadership, takes precautions, puts the needs of others ahead of their own, assertive, rule conscious, makes friends easily, always busy, heart over mind, phobic, aggressive, clingy, compassionate, dominant, outgoing, suspicious, hard working, strong

Current Songs that Grab my Attention

Three Days Grace - Pain Heard this for the 1st time today. Pain, without love Pain, I can't get enough Pain, I like it rough 'Cause I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all You're sick of feeling numb You're not the only one I'll take you by the hand And I'll show you a world that you can understand This life is filled with hurt When happiness doesn't work Trust me and take my hand When the lights go out you will understand Pain, without love Pain, I can't get enough Pain, I like rough 'Cause I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all Pain, without love Pain, I can't get enough Pain, I like rough 'Cause I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all Anger and agony Are better than misery Trust me I've got a plan When the lights go off you will understand Pain, without love Pain, I can't get enough Pain, I like rough 'Cause I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all Pain, without love Pain, I can't get enough Pain, I like rough 'Cause I'd rather feel pain than nothing Rather feel pain I know (I know I know I know I know) That you're wounded You know (You know you know you know you know) That I'm here to save you You know (You know you know you know you know) I'm always here for you I know (I know I know I know I know) That you'll thank me later Pain, without love Pain, can't get enough Pain, I like rough 'Cause I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all Pain, without love Pain, I can't get enough Pain, I like rough 'Cause I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all Pain, without love Pain, I can't get enough Pain, I like rough 'Cause I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all Rather feel pain than nothing at all Rather feel pain Bullet for my Valentine - All These Things I Hate Once more I'll say goodbye to you Things happen, but we don't really know why If it's supposed to be like this Why do most of us ignore the chance to miss? Oh yeah Torn apart at the seams and my dreams turn to tears I'm not feeling this situation Run away try to find that safe place you can hide The best place to be when you're feeling like Me! (Me) Yeah! (Yeah) All these things I hate revolve around Me (Me) Yeah! (Yeah) Just back off before I snap Once more you tell those lies to me Why can't you just be straight up with honesty? When you say those things in my ear Why do you always tell me what you wanna hear? Oh yeah (yeah!) Wear your heart on your sleeve, make things hard to believe I'm not feeling this situation Run away try to find that safe place you can hide It's the best place to be when you're feeling like Me! (Me!) Yeah! (Yeah!) All these things I hate revolve around Me! (Me!) Yeah! (Yeah!) Just back off before I snap and you'll See! (Me!) Me! (Me!) All these things I hate revolve around Me! (Me!) Yeah! (Yeah!) Just back off before I snap Torn apart at the seams and my dreams turn to tears I'm not feeling this situation Run away try to find that safe place you can hide It's the best place to be when you're feeling like me (it's the best place to be when you're!) Me! (Me!) Yeah! (Yeah!) All these things I hate revolve around Me! (Me!) Yeah! (Yeah!) Just back off before I snap and you'll See! (Me!) Me! (Me!) All these things I hate revolve around Me! (Me!) Yeah! (Yeah!) Just back off before I snap My Chemical Romance - I Don't Love You Like I Did Yesterday Well, when you go Don't ever think I'll make you try to stay And maybe when you get back I'll be off to find another way And after all this time that you still owe You're still the good-for-nothing I don't know So take your gloves and get out Better get out While you can When you go Would you even turn to say "I don't love you Like I did Yesterday" Sometimes I cry so hard from pleading So sick and tired of all the needless beating But baby when they knock you Down and out It's where you oughta stay And after all the blood that you still owe Another dollar's just another blow So fix your eyes and get up Better get up While you can Whoa, whooa When you go Would you even turn to say "I don't love you Like I did Yesterday" Well come on, come on When you go Would you have the guts to say "I don't love you Like I loved you Yesterday" I don't love you Like I loved you Yesterday I don't love you Like I loved you Yesterday I almost forgot this one. I really like the driving beat...not so sure about the lyrics yet. Nine Inch Nails - Survivalism should have listened to her So hard to keep control We kept on eating but Our bloated belly's still not full She gave us all she had but We went and took some more Can't seem to shut her legs Our mother nature is a whore I got my propaganda I got revisionism I got my violence In hi-def ultra-realism All a part of this great nation I got my fist I got my plan I got survivalism Hypnotic sound of sirens Echoing through the street The cocking of the rifles The marching of the feet You see your world on fire Don't try to act surprised We did just what you told us Lost our faith along the way and found ourselves believing your lies I got my propaganda I got revisionism I got my violence In hi-def ultra-realism All a part of this great nation I got my fist I got my plan I got survivalism All bruised and broken, bleeding She asked to take my hand I turned, just keep on walking But you'd do the same thing in the circumstance I'm sure you'll understand I got my propaganda I got revisionism I got my violence In hi-def ultra-realism All a part of this great nation I got my fist I got my plan I got survivalism

Hey Look!

I get smarter after a full night of sleep.

Uff Duh

I'm bored, deal.

1. Where were you 1 hour ago? Around 680 & Crow Canyon on the way home. 2. Who will your next kiss be with? Rik 3. Do you kiss a lot of people? Not really. I prefer to kiss those I genuinely like...as opposed to casual acquaintances. 1 sign that a friend has upset me is that I'll stop kissing them in greeting/goodbye. 4. Are you wearing socks right now? Do pantyhose count? 5. When was the last time you went out of state? January 19-February 2 Florida & Caribbean 6. Have you been to the movies in the last 5 days? No. 7. What was the last thing you had to drink? Water. 8. What are you wearing right now? Navy skirt & top w/ purple roses 9. What was your last purchase? Groceries I think. 10. Last food you ate? Peanut Lovers Chex Mix 11. Who was the last person you talked to on the phone? My VP of Lending 12. Have you bought any clothing items in the last week? Nope, but I might this weekend. 13. Do you have a pet? 1 dog, 1 cat. 14. What's the last sporting event you watched? Does pro-wrestling or MMA count? 15. Are you a pirate? I can dress like one. 16. If you could be anywhere right now, where would you be? Someplace warm, sunny & peaceful. 17. What is the last thing you purchased online? A pair of earrings from EBAY. 18. One thing you hate about yourself? Weight, closely followed by lack of self-esteem 19. What's your favorite soup? Cream of Chicken 20. Do you miss anyone? Yes 21. Last play you saw? Shopping the Musical 22. What are your plans for the day? The day? I worked. This evening, dinner & sleep. 24. Ever go to camp? A few times, but I'm not a 'roughing it' type. 25. Were you an honor roll student in school? Yes. 26. What do you know about the future? That it's probably not going to be what I expect. 27. Are you wearing any perfume or cologne? No, Rik's allergic. 28. How is one to classify? Me? I suppose eclectic would be a good start. 29. Do you have a tan? Barely. 30. How old do you want to be when you have kids? I don't want to have kids. 31. Last person who made you cry? W 2. Do you have any tattoos or piercings? 3 in each ear, 5 tattoos 32. Have you ever drank your soda from a straw? Yes. 33. How do you like your soda? Cold 34. Do you like hot sauce? Depends on how hot. I usually like it, my ulcer doesn't. 35. Next time you'll take a shower? too tired tonight, tomorrow. 37. What is your mood? See above. 38. Are you someone's best friend? I think so. 39. What did you want for Valentine's Day? Love 40. What are you doing right now? Contemplating what to do about dinner.

Sassy?

You Are Strawberry Cake

Fresh, sassy, and romantic. You're a total flirt, who never would turn down a sugary treat. Occasionally you're a bit moody - but you usually stay sweet!

What Kind of Cake Are You?

Not Holding My Breath

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You scored as Carrot Ironfounderson. You are Captain Carrot Ironfounderson of the City Watch in the greatest city on the Disc Ankh-Morprok! A truly good natured, honest guy, who knows everyone, and is liked by all. Technically a dwarf, but only by adoption. You'd rather not be reminded that you are the true heir to the throne, but that does explain why people naturally follow your orders. Carrot Ironfounderson 81% Greebo 63% Gytha (Nanny) Ogg 56% The Librarian 50% Commander Samuel Vimes 50% Esmerelda (Granny) Weatherwax 50% Lord Havelock Vetinari 44% Rincewind 38% Death 31% Cohen The Barbarian 31% Which Discworld Character are you like (with pics) created with QuizFarm.com

Scope this

I had a meeting with my boss yesterday. All management types are supposed to have quarterly meeting with their staff (individually) to discuss the process of their annual goals. 1 of the things my boss mentioned was that she is noticing a positive difference in my interactions with others. Unfortunately, my husband isn't seeing much. I'm not sure if that's because he just isn't paying attention, or if I'm not trying hard enough at home to curb things (afterall, I can't get fired from my wife position). From www.tarot.com Daily Overview The pace of life begins to settle down again now that we are past the erratic Sun-Uranus conjunction. The easygoing Libra Moon is a reminder that being pleasant to others can also make us feel better. Libra's key planet Venus is already picking up on the good vibrations of its trine to Jupiter and Saturn later in the week. Additionally today is the last day of Mercury's retrograde phase, so we should clean up any loose ends before moving forward. Inner diplomat?? Daily Leo Today you have an opportunity to be a hero by making contact with your inner diplomat. You have the ability now to express opposing points of view without your ego getting in the way. Everyone will be happy once they come closer to a common ground, and your negotiation skills can make all the difference. From www.astrology.com What about people who've been in your life for a while (CEO? friends?) Leo Extended The confusing behavior of someone you're just getting to know is becoming frustrating -- today it might be time to find out, once and for all, what's really going on. Taking an unexpected action could throw this person for a loop, but it's nothing compared to the uncertainty she or he has been putting you through. In order to feel confident about what you're doing, you have to know more about what's going on; it's as simple as that. As someone else can attest to, I probably didn't talk enough recently. Long & short of it, is that it's just hard for me to deal with problems...even when they whirl around my head so much as to literally make me sick. I keep thinking, what if the talking just makes things worse? Leo Couple's Love Now is a great time for you to sit down with Sweetie and talk about the issues that are most important to you. It doesn't matter if they have nothing to do with your relationship -- just be real with each other.

Halloween

Does anyone who went to my Halloween party mind if Rik posts pictures from the party to his Halloween site, http://www.perfessorevil.com/?

March Lemming

March is question month. You can ask any question. It can be as personal or non-personal as you want and I am screening the questions.

I'm not sure I get it

From www.tarot.com Playful, but cautious? I do get the last line, and I'm pretty sure I've been guilty of that for a while now...and probably will be more so before the week wraps up. Daily Overview We are more playful today as the Leo Moon is past its restrictive conjunction with Saturn. We become more cautious as the Moon enters analytical Virgo at 4:32 pm EST and continues to wax toward tomorrow's Full Moon Eclipse. Additionally, messenger Mercury, nearing the end of its retrograde phase, forms a tense semisquare with sweet Venus. No matter what we say, it seems our words get in the way of love instead of moving us closer toward it. Oneupmanship? No. Clarity & understanding, always. Daily Leo Your problem could stem from the fact that you are so perceptive that you can see what's really happening. Unfortunately, others may not be ready for your brand of realism. Even if they know you're right, they may interpret your intentions incorrectly, perhaps thinking that you are only interested in a game of one-upmanship. It's best to share the role of bringing truth out of the closet. From www.astrology.com What about asking your inner child? Leo Overview Tackle this issue from a different perspective. In fact, it wouldn't hurt to ask a kid what they think of the situation. While the answer may not have practical applications, it'll make you laugh -- and see the light. I'm not sure any 1 person is The One for me, after all, I am involved with 3 people. However, it's always good to make sure those people know that they matter. Leo Couple's Love Find a new way to tell Sweetie they're the one -- your creative powers are strong now, and you should easily be able to get the message across. Your partner will adore you all the more, if that's possible. More on the inner child. Aries Couple's Love It's a good time for you, and your childlike energy will make it easy for you to make your partner laugh. No matter what you're facing together, it will seem a lot simpler by the end of the day.

Something I need to understand better

If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was. We do not possess anything in this world, least of all other people. We only imagine that we do. Our friends, our lovers, our spouses, even our children are not ours; they belong only to themselves. Possessive and controlling friendships and relationships can be as harmful as neglect. Later, when I have a hour or 2 to dedicate to a serious post...I've got a few things to say about Dale Carnegie's "How to Win Friends & Influence People." I wish I had read this a long time ago...there are a lot of simple truths in there...truths that many probably already know, and just push aside in their minds because their main focus is 'me, me, me.'

So I'm going to become a multi-millionaire?

From www.astrology.com Daily Leo Your wildest dreams come true, especially when you stick close to the original source. That means keeping it simple, silly. Cut all the unnecessary trim and you'll find the absolute essence of success. Ya know, I've sort of been feeling this since I got the compliance aspects of my job dropped on my desk. However, I think I'd be more comfortable in what I do...if someone would actually tell/show be what they want me to be doing, instead of letting me blunder about blindly. Leo Extended Have the confidence to do what you want today -- don't be afraid to boldly go where you've never gone before. Sure, you might not know how everything works at first, but that doesn't have to put you at a disadvantage. After the first five minutes, your nerves will stop jangling, and you'll even start to feel a sense of accomplishment. Take a deep breath, and then step out of your comfort zone -- and relish that 'Wow! I can really do this!' sensation. My best qualities at the forefront...my boobs? Leo Single's Love Be wonderful! All your finest, shiniest, hottest qualities are in the forefront now (and even your flaws are pretty darn cute at the moment). Love life and it'll be as fun, funny and fabulous as you are.

Do I try too hard?

www.tarot.com Daily Leo Your separate thoughts have a life of their own and may be tripping over each other as they try to be seen and appreciated. You are clever and your associates and friends know it, but you don't have to try so hard to impress them. Slow down and do what must be done. You'll still get noticed and you'll still be loved. www.astrology.com Someone's looking for a fight? Leo Couple's Love All you want is to keep the peace, but your sweetie might be raring for a fight. They won't get one, thanks to your calm reserve, and eventually they should break down and tell you what's really the matter.

why me?

From www.tarot.com I don't need communication struggles. Daily Overview The sensitive Cancer Moon stirs our worries about emotional insecurities. We want to withdraw, but Mars just entered Aquarius, so our unorthodox interactions become more important than retreating. Mental Mercury, now well into its retrograde cycle, backs up into quirky Aquarius, creating an intellectual backlash to our emotions. Mercury and Mars form an irritating semisextile, indicating possible communication struggles with our friends or coworkers. Followed up with... Daily Leo You may not feel very outgoing today as you are lost in an internal swirl of emotional fantasy. Keeping your dreams in check and working through your hidden fears can take up a lot of personal bandwidth. Even though you might create a misunderstanding, you will be happier once you move the energy from within your imagination out into the open. www.astrology.com has this to say Leo Overview The urge to make something happen just to end a stalemate is irresistible, but the so-called solution could end up being more trouble than the original situation. Practice patience until it becomes second nature. Fan club? Oh please! Leo Extended Modesty may prevent you from bragging to the world about your latest success, but it won't prevent friends and loved ones from singing your praises! Everyone is so proud of you, and while you might not be privy to everything they have been saying about you, it is definitely all good stuff! Try to organize a casual get-together (a pizza dinner at your place, maybe?) where you can check in with your fan club and send some love back their way. And on love... Leo Single's Love All your senses are working overtime now, including a certain sixth sense about romantic matters. You might feel a bit vulnerable, but you've also got an intense emotional intelligence. Isn't this just peachy? Leo Couple's Love If your sweetie is mad or unreachable, keep trying. You need to be sure that you can at least say that you tried, though things should actually get a lot better in just a few days.

Me? Dance around a discussion?

From www.tarot.com Daily Overview Mercury the Messenger, now flying backward through the sky in its retrograde phase, joins the Sun in compassionate Pisces today. This aspect aligns our words with our intentions, giving us the gift of insightful communication. However, Pisces can be indirect, so we may take a discussion on a wild goose chase before making our point. Fortunately, the solid Taurus Moon helps us to maintain a particular direction until we reach our goal. Changes in my career...again? Leo (Jul 23 - Aug 22) This could be an uncomfortable day, for responsibilities at work don't give you enough room to be in touch with a gentler side of your personality. It may be that the pressures of reality are pushing up against your dreams and you don't like how it feels. Remain as flexible as possible; big changes are coming soon, even if you feel stuck now. From www.astrology.com Receptive to the unusual? I am the unusual... Daily Leo Overview Unlikely suggestions prove to have the most potential for really changing the situation. You're most receptive to the unusual later in the day -- and the more tangential the conversation, the more likely it'll be useful. I'm good w/ teams, but I generally prefer to go it alone. Leo Extended Sometimes being part of a team is empowering -- when many people combine their efforts, they are much more powerful than one person can be on his or her own. But being one of many can also make you feel insignificant, as if you're just a cog in a machine. Today is definitely a day for individual endeavors -- you will not do well in team environments. Let your conscience and your creativity guide you. Sometimes it's fun to listen to gossip, but I generally don't perpetuate it...and when it's about me, I try to track it to it's source (and usually fail...no one ever wants to tell me the truth). Leo Single's Love You've got bigger and better things to think (and feel) about than others' petty gossip or silly drama. Conduct yourself with honor and grace and keep on keepin' on. Your energy's hot now; don't waste it. I'm not sure if there's anything routine about any of my relationships. Leo Couple's Love You and your sweetie have routines that generally make life easier, but today you might feel stuck by one or more of them. Try to chart your own path for now, but make it clear that you're still on the same side. And hey...let's see what's in Aries skies... Hmm, this shows promise. Aries Extended You are making some positive impressions on some very powerful people right now, and today your perseverance will pay off handsomely. Get ready to be invited into the inner circle, through either a social or a work-related invitation. The nature of your time with these people isn't as important as the length of time you will have with them. Do not be nervous -- these people want to get to know you better, and in order to portray yourself accurately, you need to feel relaxed and optimistic. Stalking again? Aries Single's Love Go ahead and charm their socks off -- little do they know that your seemingly lighthearted line of inquiry is letting you find out who they are and what they value. Favorite books, most embarrassing moments -- it's all telling. Aries Couple's Love It's a good time to talk about big issues with your partner -- you'll by surprised by some of the basic values you share. There may be some disagreements, but that's part of what makes relationships interesting.

Feisty Aries

From www.tarot.com Daily Overview It's a Venus kind of day as the planet of love powers her way into feisty Aries where she is more direct about getting what she wants. During the next month, we crave immediate gratification, yet it may be wiser to wait for the best possible moment. A conflict arises as the Moon slips into sensual Taurus at 3:03 pm EST, grounding our desires and giving us much-needed common sense. Since Venus is Taurus' key planet, our senses ultimately rule the day. Speaking of Aries... Aries (Mar 21 - Apr 19) Venus camps out in Aries until March 17, activating your romance antennae. You are on a mission now, seeking the elusive adrenaline rush of love. If you are in a relationship, think about reenergizing it as if you were courting again. If you're single, perhaps you will meet someone new. Either way, do whatever you can to add excitement to your life.

For mzmtnlion

RULES: Each player of this game starts off with 10 weird things/habits/little known facts about yourself. People who get tagged need to write a blog of their own 10 weird habits/things/little known facts as well as state this rule clearly. At the end you need to choose 10 people to be tagged and list their names. No tag backs. 1. My senior year of high school, I went to an Iron Maiden concert @ Shoreline, in the middle of the week. I managed to convince my mom to call in sick for me at school & I spent the day at Hillsdale Mall. 2. I spent 15 years in choir & 7 years performing in a RHPS cast...but karaoke terrifies me. 3. People we're placing bets on whether or not I'd show up to my own wedding, and if I did, whether we'd last out the year. It'll be 13 years in June. 4. I haven't seen my natural hair color since 1988. 5. I kept a paper journal for about 5 years, and toy with the idea of typing it all up in Word. For a little bit, I even thought about writing a book based on my life. 6. I love milk & don't like going more than a day or 2 without a glass of it. 7. I've had many expensive chocolates from all over the world, but Hershey's will always be my favorite. 8. My Playboy collection dates back to April 1972 (found a lot of 70's-80's at a garage sale), and I have nearly all of them from 1994 to now. 9. We have about 7,000 books. I'm sure I've mentioned this before, but I'm running out of ideas. 10. I started being nutso about unicorns when I was 14. The 1st thing I got was a black satin jacket with a unicorn in silver dust on the back. I haven't been avidly collecting them for a while now (but at one time I had nearly a dozen posters & way too many figurines), but I think I still have the back of that jacket packed away somewhere. Tag amalthea_sf crapihatealiasz dr_moni ewhac leggylady mensia originalmanley rightkindofme venusrising voyeurprincess

Horoscopes for PantheaCon Weekend.

Once again I'll be at PantheaCon (http://www.ancientways.com/pantheacon). It's held at the Double Tree in San Jose. However, since I took my time registering for a hotel room, the Double Tree was full by the time I called (1/6/07), so I'm staying down the road at the Holiday Inn (formerly Hyatt or Hilton, can't remember). The rooms there are a bit cheaper, and I'm guaranteed at least a mile of walking every day this weekend. So...on to the horoscopes... From www.tarot.com, which can only see 2 days into the future... Today's Leo An exciting connection with an unusual person could complicate your life today. Problems arise if you attempt to control anyone else, for it will likely be frustrating if you try to push your own agenda. If, however, you can simply appreciate others for their uniqueness, then you could be blessed with a fresh approach to your life and relationships. Saturday's Daily General Overview Today's high-strung Aquarius New Moon at 11:13 am EST intensifies our concern for the future of humanity, before it enters intuitive Pisces at 1:29 pm EST. Aquarius thinks globally, yet Pisces melts the cool intellectualism into a softer and more emotional outlook. Mercury, still retrograde, reminds us to reconsider our assumptions, for we may arrive at new answers to old problems as we let scientific thoughts morph into spiritual practice and fantasy. Saturday's Leo You are like a magnet for unusual people now, and they will likely play an important role in your immediate future. Your assertive style, however, can make the situation more complex, so it may be a good idea to let others take the lead in social interactions. Remember, at this time being cooperative could be more effective than being bold. Sunday's Daily General Overview Intuition and compassion rule the skies today as the Moon swims through Pisces, conjoining both mental Mercury and erratic Uranus. A new astrological month begins as the Sun enters the watery domains of Pisces, making a total of five planets in the sign of The Fish. Meanwhile, loving Venus forms a magical biquintile aspect with stabilizing Saturn, gracing us with the potential for enduring love, assuming we are ready to put in the required effort. Sunday's Leo Life may seem like it is back on track now, but be careful about glossing over a painful emotional issue. If you feel as if you have been unfairly judged or rejected, it may not be such a good idea to pretend that everything is fine. This isn't the time to be cavalier. Listen to your heart and take whatever comes to you as constructive guidance so you can find the happiness you seek. From www.astrology.com, who only sees 1 day ahead Today's Leo Overview A new idea has definite possibilities -- but move slowly. Remember, some situations need to simmer or else they can boil over. Work with it as it appears and let it develop in its own fashion and on its own schedule. Today's Leo Extended Every relationship you have is a partnership of one kind or another -- and in every partnership, there's a balance of power to be considered. Today you will be especially aware of these power issues, although there will not necessarily be any type of battle. Just understanding the give and take of every exchange you have with someone will help prepare you for potential clashes. The more prepared you are, the shorter these future conflicts will be. Today's Leo Couples Love If things aren't working out, it's up to you to find a different approach. You can draw on that famous creative energy of yours to come up with a new way to get your sweetie smiling. Saturday's Leo Overview Good manners are often discounted, but they can work miracles. After all, etiquette is really about being considerate by putting other people at ease. Such an attitude can turn a whole situation around. Saturday's Leo Extended Money may make the world go 'round, but it doesn't have any place in your day today. Try to avoid any financial dealings -- especially those that involve friends. There is a lot of uncertainty around transactions and investments right now, and you would be much better off if you delay such things until another day. You are entitled to be a lot more frugal than you may think you are. Money is a personal issue -- your wallet is your business and no one else's. Ok, so what this means is that I should skip the Dealer's Room Saturday? Saturday's Leo Single's Love You've got a flair for the dramatic at the moment, so dress the part and find an appreciative audience. The stories you tell, the theater you enact and your sheer star power are very impressive. Saturday's Leo Couple's Love Don't worry if the two of you are speaking past each other today -- it's just the way things are right now. You'll be able to reconnect soon, and you shouldn't miss out on anything too serious. And, because The Wench will be joining me Saturday, here's a thing or 2 for her from www.astrology.com. Saturday's Aries Overview A thorn in your side is there for a reason. Cultivate objectivity and look for the cosmic lesson behind this annoyance. Once you realize what the point of all this brouhaha is, your irritation will disappear. Saturday's Aries Couple's Love You want to lend a hand, but your sweetheart might not know exactly what they need from you. Your guesses should be pretty solid, so don't worry about the last decimal place.

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Rather depressing to get these horoscopes on V-Day. From www.tarot.com General Daily Overview We may not be very lighthearted on this Valentine's Day, with the Moon in cautious Capricorn. Our discomfort is emphasized by irritating quincunxes from restrictive Saturn to both impulsive Mars and loving Venus. It feels as if our dreams are just one step beyond our reach. It may be thoroughly annoying that we must meet our obligations before we can experience pleasure. Nevertheless, enjoyment must be postponed until our work is done. Leo (Jul 23 - Aug 22) You may feel a deep tugging on your heartstrings as an emotional issue creates stress between you and your partner. Don't try to ignore the reality of the situation, even if it brings you down. It's much better to face the truth in the present moment than to be happy in your misguided illusion. There may be a middle ground, but it's not likely that you will find it today. From www.astrology.com Leo Daily Overview You can't stop thinking about this situation -- why won't it just go away? Slow down there, slugger. Observe the nature of the problem before you try to escape its grasp. Struggling increases the strength of its hold.

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So...I think the common thread is communication Daily overview from www.tarot.com The magnetic Scorpio Moon increases the intensity of our passions and compels us to express them. Sometimes this depth is challenging, for exploring the shadows of our inner worlds can dredge up old pain. Today, however, the Moon forms harmonious aspects with Mercury, Uranus, Venus and Mars, creating an easy flow between us and everyone else. Additionally, lovely Venus squares excessive Jupiter, encouraging us to take each experience to the max. Leo (Jul 23 - Aug 22) Somewhat apropro You may feel a bit conflicted today as your emotions pull you away from the fun. Don't worry if you miss a social gathering now, for you have important work to do as you process your emotions. Even if you go on a date or to a party, remember that there is no need to hide your feelings behind a performance. Daily Leo from www.astrology.com This seems much harsher of a solution than I would put into use. Give that difficult person just one more chance. If you open your heart and shut down your ego, you might be (pleasantly) surprised at what transpires. And, okay, if they mess up this chance, you can wash your hands of them. Leo Daily Extended Why can't this be tomorrows? If you are going shopping today, try to stop off at a secondhand shop or an antique store. There is an undiscovered gem waiting to be found, and you will spot it immediately. You have an exceptional ability to understand the true value of something that no one else appreciates. Turn away from the flashy and the new. Instead, look for something weathered and old -- go find something that has a story to tell, and integrate it into your life. Leo Single's Love Dive into deeper-level conversation with those you meet as well as those you already know now. Ask them their opinion on important issues. They'll find you fascinating and you'll forge new, stronger bonds. And...Leo Couple's Love You've got to keep asking -- eventually you will get the real answer. Your sweetheart might think they're protecting you from some truth, but it's the concealing that's doing the harm.

It's Saturday

Besides getting my life back in order from vacation (unpacking) & going to a Women's Party, I'm not sure what the 'exacting work' is that I'm supposed to be doing today. :) From www.tarot.com - Leo (Jul 23 - Aug 22) You need to pay attention to the smallest details today as you do very exacting work. Normally your ability to focus is not a problem, but your eagerness to do something new may now be greater than your commitment to perfection. Don't judge yourself too harshly if you don't meet the high standards you set. Just do the best you can and then move on. and the girlfiend is going to be fighting her restraints huh? Aries (Mar 21 - Apr 19) You may be of two minds today. On one hand you are committed to quietly going about your chores and doing everything exactly as you should. But your key planet Mars is receiving rebellious signals from Uranus, urging you to fight back against any signs of boredom or restraint. Moderating your impulses may not sound like fun, yet you will be happier in the long run if you do.

Even on vacation

my horoscopes are interesting. From www.tarot.com, Love Horoscope for the Week of: Monday, January 29, 2007 Valia, The Moon in your sign tends to magnify your emotions this weekend. Passions can go over the top, but it's better to be true to your feelings than to stuff them. The faint of heart may run away, but don't waste your time on someone who lacks the courage to love you.

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Posting from Miami a few hours before we get on the ship...may be the last time I get a connection until we get back on the 28th. Couldn't resist posting this horoscope. www.astrology.com Leo Single's Love That great-looking hottie may be as dull as a box of rocks, while someone else's unconventionally attractive exterior might hide a red-hot, melty-delicious center. Pretty is as pretty does; don't you forget it, now.

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From www.astrology.com Leo Daily Extended It's amazing how effective a simple conversation can be. Today, if you are confused about something, do not be afraid to go to the source and ask what the deal is. Asking for clarity is a sign of intelligence, and something that higher-ups will understand and respect. The same goes for emotions: if you don't understand your feelings about someone, talk it out -- and divulge the fact that you aren't yet certain of things. Keep the other person in the loop.

January 19 - February 2

In case anyone wonders about my extended period of silence (hey stop applauding!)... I'm leaving for a 2 week vacation on Friday morning. We're heading to Ft. Lauderdale & going on a 7 day cruise. Once we get back we're going to see my dad for a bit, and spend a day or 2 at DisneyWorld, and then our last stop will be Key West. We'll be back home the evening of 2/2/07. I might make it out to Bang 4 the Buck on Saturday...it just all depends on whether I get everything unpacked (why yes I'm a bit anal), and how tired/jet-lagged I am.

Possessiveness Towards People...really? (snerk)

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Not About Anger

It seems like the 'stars' have been beating me over the head lately with various horoscopes that really seem to tie in with recent things going on in my own little world. Today, I finally get something new. :) Daily Reading from www.tarot.com The Moon enters mysterious Scorpio at 2:07 am EST, drawing us into our feelings, whether we understand them or not. It's not for us to rationalize our desires at this time, but only to explore them. And sweet romance could be in the air, with sensual Venus now giving optimistic Jupiter a supportive planetary kiss in the form of a sextile. This harmonious aspect places a more positive spin on whatever dark emotions rise to the surface. And I get the feeling that this is a pointed reminder about other things in my life. All I can say to this...is that I have a hard time living just in the now...I like at least thinking of the future, if not planning...a few weeks out at least. :) Leo (Jul 23 - Aug 22) Much of the day can be spent in anticipation of something right around the corner, but your focus on the future could detract from your enjoyment of the present. Fulfillment may be elusive, especially if your playful interactions are confused with unrealistic expectations. Don't expect any more than you have. Enjoy what's right in front of you; the future will arrive on its own accord. And from www.astrology.com Your Daily Horoscope - Leo You're intensely fascinating, and the world around you is waking up to that fact. Few signs are as well-equipped to deal with adulation as you are. Sign autographs, pose for the cameras and then make a glamorous exit. I don't think I'm quite on board the 'You're So Fascinating' train...but it's a nice idea all the same.