I was gonna leave another comment

But I thought this made a good stand alone post...a little insight into the workings of my mind. In the instance that prompted me to make that post in the 1st place...I actually had spoken to both people in the past, more than once about both sets of situations...and in both cases, I was told that I was misinterpreting what was really going on, or that things really weren't as I was seeing them. I felt like my thoughts, my feelings were being totally invalidated...I felt that I was being told I was wrong for thinking/feeling the way I did, and I felt it was being implied that any other person would not be bothered by the things that were bothering me. So...I let things go...I re-examined things, and gee...I experienced the same things all over again...so I decided I don't care who's wrong or right...but that I deserve to be heard & have my feelings taken into consideration.