Personal Ads

I decided it was time to change the personal ads on www.bondage.com and www.collarme.com See behind the cut if you want. :) My #1 requirement - If at the end of the day, you can NOT remove your dick & put it into the drawer beside your bed....I do NOT want to hear from you. NOTE OF HONESTY - I am technically bisexual, but outside of my husband, I have no interest in males. I list myself as gay, so that I won't show up as a match for males. CONSIDER YOURSELF WARNED....I'm not lying about, or hiding the fact that I am married. Do you crave the thud of a flogger, the sting of a cane or single tail, the smack of a paddle or bare hand? When your nipples are cruelly pinched & your breasts are grabbed hard enough to bruise, do you find yourself on the edge of an orgasm? Do you get all fluttery inside seeing a bunch of S/M toys and start to imagine all the ways they could be used on you? Well then, you just might be the woman that I’m looking for! To make it clear, I am a sadistic top first & foremost. If you exist to serve someone and follow their every order….I may not be the person for you. While obedience IS important to me, I really want a partner who is a masochist first & foremost. Someone who takes the pain because THEY want it….not just because I want them to. Someone who ENJOYS all forms of sensation….thuddy, stingy, burning, tickling, soft caresses, hard bites….and whatever else comes into my devious little head. Now that I have your attention….here’s a few important things that you need to know about me, and a few qualities that I hope are contained within you. Who I am - 35 years old, tall, intelligent, strong, voluptuous, feminine, and sadistic. Married, bisexual (but ONLY interested in women), and polyamorous. I've been into BDSM since 1992, and I've been an active part of the Bay Area scene since 1994. I'm looking for a woman (or women) to be my lover, play-partner & friend. I'm not interested in 1-night stands, but 'friends with benefits' is a damn fine idea. I'm not necessarily looking for true love & a life-long commitment, but trust, honesty & friendship are a MUST. I DO have a submissive partner who shares my home, but while our relationship is D/S (mostly service) based, it is a platonic relationship, and outside of our relationship, she is dominant towards others. Who you are - FEMALE (bio or Post Op TS), masochistic is preferred, and obedience is a PLUS. Total submission isn't required, but I must be honest & say that I don't play well with women who are SAM's or bratty most of the time. Once in a while is quite fun, but daily doses tend to wear me out & fray my temper. I prefer intelligent, stable, mature women. Someone who's got their sh*t together, so to speak. Someone with a satisfying life OUTSIDE of the bedroom & BDSM arena, someone who would be just as happy watching TV with me, as they would be tied up & flogged by me. I don't care what your relationship status is....so long as you are NOT cheating on your partner. I do NOT do cheating, or 'discrete' relationships. I conduct myself with honesty & integrity, and I prefer to be close to people who do the same. That gets the important points out of the way. If you are interested & want to know more....you know what to do. :)